Do u sometimes feel like u r and easy target for mean people?

Answer 1

Sometimes, because some people have formed this opinion that I am somehow *too nice* which is not true. I'm nice, but I'm not a kissy **** with people. But otherwise, no. I've gotten to the point with mean people that they dare not mess with me or experience my wrath.

Answer 2

yep I am a larger guy who doesn't look like much so others pick fights or otherwise with me I have never started a fight and walked away from many which may make me look like a weak man or at least non aggressive which I generally am however I have been in many fights I have not won every one but I do say they never wanted to fight me again I have busted up bars thrown people through windows and over and across pool tables and cars I am a gentle giant type but I also know how to defend myself very well military and kendo background I will say noone has gotten more than a few bruises from me with one exception of a guy who knifed me and I broke his arm but generally I can honestly say I have never thrown a first punch yet I know if someone were to threaten those I care for I would but other than that I have no need to be the aggressor mean people are much like bullies if you do not get upset or react to the taunting they will find someone or somewhere else to play

Answer 3

I never really had a problem with mean people. I think it may be because I'm so easy going and laid back, that it doesn't take much to bother me. I just kind of go with the flow. So when mean people see that I'm not bothered by what they're saying they get bored and move on.

Answer 4

yea, I'm one of the type of people that help people at any expense, so usually being nice can make you a direct sight to the bullies. Blissfully you wish for it to stop but it's like a record that keeps repeating over and over again. Sometimes it drive people to do things they really don't want to do but wish for it to stop. At that point that make people suffer from either an anger problem which lead to something like cutting yourself, or depression which keep treading you to sadness and despair.

I know all this from myself that was caught inbetween both deminsion of anger and sadness and learn that it's best to not be both, I can make myself appy but only to know deeply inside im just sad from everything thats going on.

so for now im sad till i look forward for another chapter to my story.

Answer 5

Hi, in my younger days I think that was very true but nowadays I don't let no one get to me. The best thing to do when someone is mean to you is don't let yourself be a target just keep your head up and be nice to them, bite your tongue and don't lower yourself to their level.

When people are mean or just plain ignorant I just keep my cool and go on with myself **** them. Live for you and don't lower your head for nobody.

Cheers.

Answer 6

Yes, I was raised to respect people. Others were not... I try to do the right thing whether the other person does or not. I will feel okay about me at the end of the day.

Answer 7

Sometimes, I have always been the person where people take advantage of my kindness and the fact that i never liked arguing. I hate arguing so i just ignore them. Which is very funny because they hate it.

Answer 8

Yep, I seem to bring them out of every where. How is it that some bhole knows without ever meeting you before, the exact thing the hurts you the most?

Answer 9

My best advice for you is to be kind. You can actually get to ppl more by killing with kindness instead of getting mad. You be the bigger adult and don't worry about what other ppl think of you.

Answer 10

Sometimes, but not on a daily basis.