Never treated me right! Do you think I should tell her off or just turn the other cheek and pray for her! Is is a sin to tell her she is wrong and what she does hurts me!?
2007-04-19 13:39:09 · 24 answers · asked by Amy E 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
YES! She is bipolar!
2007-04-19 13:42:34 · update #1
honestly, i feel in life you should only have to "take" so much. Let her know you are praying for her, but also tell her you are not going to take it anymore.
2007-04-20 01:50:54 · answer #1 · answered by Niffer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
being bi polar says it all. some people with medicine don't take it properly because they stop after a month or so because they feel better. they think they don't need it, when the truth is that the medicine makes them feel better.
more than likely she can not truly control how she is and how she treats you. turn the other cheek. you are a pastor's wife, you should do some community time at a psychiatric ward, seriously, and you will understand more of why she is the way she is. you will see things you never thought possible that people do and say. mental illness is a disease.
2007-04-19 21:04:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is about time you need to tell her off! Take the initiative to talk to her, cos she is not only hurting you but might hurt other people in the long-run. The approach can cause you draw her to the Lord. Do it cos you love her. Of cos, pray for her. For God commands us to love our sisters and brothers and neighbors. It is not a sin unless you carry it away. I pray also that your relationship could go stronger.
2007-04-19 21:05:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Amy, I have this same problem with my sister she used to knock me down, lock me in closets, and be a not so nice Sister. Time to have it out with her, and mend fence's, maybe by now you can establish a better relationship now that both of you are older. Please give this a try before you tell her off. Pray for her she needs forgiveness and understanding as well. If she has bipolar its the sickness not her!
2007-04-19 20:47:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well sweetie, even though it hurts you by your sisters actions, loving her unconditional is the right thing to do. I am not saying to push yourself on her, rather put it in God;s Hands. Pray for her. The Lord can soften her heart where no one else can! Eventually through the direction of the Lord, I am sure she will come around. You are not the only one missing out, so is she and I am sure she will eventually realize this...Lord bless you!
2007-04-19 20:45:00 · answer #5 · answered by heavenboundiwillbe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a sin to treat anyone horribly...you should tell her in a calm collected way that the way she treats you hurts you very much...........but, don't be surprised if she says something like ..."so what?" Or she may surprise you and change...I hope so!
2007-04-19 20:43:53 · answer #6 · answered by missellie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell her off dude cmon youve known her for 33 years yet shes still mean to you...youd think shed have grown to love you by now tell her off and pray for her also its not a sin to tell her shes wrong
2007-04-19 20:42:52 · answer #7 · answered by Jay 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you love her, but she is a freaking crazy nutcase and needs help. She needs some tough love and some repercussions if she continues. There is nothing in the bible saying you have to take abuse.
2007-04-19 20:45:05 · answer #8 · answered by Ryan P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she doesn't know she is being mean to you and hurting your feelings. Maybe she thinks she is just teasing you. I mean you are siblings right? Some people show affection this way. If you don't like it, tell her
2007-04-19 20:43:27 · answer #9 · answered by adrienne 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not a sin to tell the truth, get it off your chest it will make you feel better!
2007-04-19 20:43:05 · answer #10 · answered by hapigrl85 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋