Im gay and in love with my friend?

Question

hi. im a 16 yrs old boy and gay. my friend is 16 too. idk if hes gay or not. but he gives me lots of signs. like looks me in the eyes and smiles, we wrestle sometimes, and hes never had a girl friend. he never talks about girls or says one is hot when were in public or private. is he gay? will he go out with me? what can i do? p.s. im going bowling with some friends and the kid i like is friends with all them and me lol. i invited him along and he said he would go but he has basketball but hes not sure when that is so he mite go. i have never directly told him that im gay, but shanking him and tickling him etc looking him in the eyes may give it away, and i do all this and he still wants to hang out lol

Answer 1

im sure he knows and he probally is gay too best of luck

Answer 2

there are subtle ways to do this, look next time you walk on yhe street with him, ask him if he think that girl is hot, you know like straight guys do, they check out girls all the time if he doesn't respond or seem unconfortable with the question, that's a good sign to make a move... Just tell him that you're really not into girls it was a trick question to see what he thought and you were expecting that his answer would go something like this: I don't like girls, I like you ...and look him deepl in the eyes while doing this.

Good Luck

Answer 3

ok heres what u can do pull him aside and start talking to him.finally ask him if he is attracted to guys...if he says yes which he might not say right away he may feel scared to tell u and think u might reject him. but when he finds out ur gay too it might all work out. from what u said above he sounds pretty gay to me.i dont mean that in a bad way either. i hope this helps u and hope it works out for u 2

Answer 4

I guess, maybe talk about being gay in general, like, does he ever watch ________(show/movie w/gay people), read ________ mag/blog/whatever, stuff like that. See how he feels about homosexuality in general.

I mean, if he's really homophobic, you might not want to tell him YOU'RE gay, not if it'll freak him out or whatever.

But he sounds pretty receptive to you as a friend, and he might already suspect you're gay, especially if he is, too. If he's supportive of homosexuality, then see if he's supportive of homosexuality between the two of you.

But don't go too fast--you're both young and just friends. You don't want to jeopardize your friendship by moving too fast.

Answer 5

Just ask him to hang out with you one night, drink a few beers, and start talking about it, it will come out eventualy, and then take it from there, if he is, make a move, if he is not, back away slowly!! Either way, keep him as a friend, good friends are hard to come by!!! ENJOY!!!

Answer 6

example 1 just be like hey dude i am like gay..... can we still be buds?if he says yes next time you tickel him b like this is fun and if he agrees be like this is wat i did with my last bf ( u can lie about it if u never had 1) and if he says ok and dosent really mind then say i like u want to go out and if he says no say srry to like rush into that srry i won't do it again

Example 2
Sit in privet and b like hey i never told u directly but i am gay and i sorta have a crush on u but i will stop it if u do not feel the same way. if he says yes b like lets resstle baby or if u wanna take it slow b like wanna go for a soda or movie
if u wanna take it fast but still slow b like wanna make out on the couch!but if he says no say i hope we can still keep our friend ship and say ttyl and walk away (so don't do it at your house)
good luck tiger ! u get that guy

Answer 7

Hm... This is tough. If you feel that you're both close enough as friends to get through this (if he is not gay), then go for it. Trust your gut instinct and good luck.

Answer 8

I think you should sit down and flat out tell him you're gay. See how he reacts and than maybe you'll know. Or just go for it!
Hope everything works out well.

Answer 9

being gay isn't like being straight, there is a stigma that goes with that. i would tell him you are gay and more or less ask if that's okay (which i am sure it will be), but i would not ask him if he is gay. he may or may not be, he also may be bi or even confused. tell him that you are and see where it goes from there.

Answer 10

heh, ya chances are those "subtle gestures" gave yourself away... if you think he already knows just tell him and then maby you wont need to ask him and if it turns out he isn't, its better off knowing than getting your mind all worked up for nothing.