I do not date, never had to and never will...and above all I hate flirting as it has to be undone, what is???

Question

Your take on this?????

By the way I was married for 18 years.....we decided to marry on our first date from 6 months of undeniable chemistry.....I paid for the so called date.

Oh another thing, my bf is over 15 years younger than myself..now do you call that lonesome you pathetic git....well?

Spider 1 did youread what I wrote? I am in NO way angry....i am sooooooo hip to players. i m NOT one of them...give me someone with a brain..and that i have.

John John You have NO idea what flirting is..."I COMMUNICATE", don't even dare to try to rip me apart here. I go for brains.....seen yours around lately?

Answer 1

I think that is one of the smartest approaches to the dating/flirting problem I have heard in a long time. No one would ever really see the real you, the other way. This way you can be who you are, yourself and no worries......

Answer 2

You have never dated? And never flirted? HOw then did you ever meet the someone, to whom you were once married to for 18 years? You're strange, and I'd say self contradictory.
YOu say your bf is 15 years younger, but you don't say how old you are? Is it accurate to say you're 43 and he's 28? If my guess about your age is correct, you and I have something in common. Do you ever notice other men looking at (or even glancing at or watching ) you or other women? Even smiling at you or other women? That's flirting. However, there are other ways to do it. Yea, you're strange. YOu don't know what flirting is, and yet you hate it. You don't know what you're talking about. It can't be undone. I like flirting, although, I wish I could do something more. But then I'm single, (unfortunately) and wouldn't like or do it, if I had gf ( I sure wish I had one), or if I was married.

Answer 3

I think you are an intelligent woman who knows your own mind and is strong enough to live your own life anyway that pleases you. You allow a man into your life if he is lucky but you don't need him to feel complete. You don't need to flirt to attract any man because you don't go out of your way to chase him down. Either he comes to you or he gets passed over. You are too busy living your life to play games. Games are for kids.

Answer 4

Well, that's great it has worked out for you that way. I think dating is a fun way to know different people. In my case, that helps me to decide what I want & don't want in a LT relationship. So I think dating is a good/useful thing.

Answer 5

If being who you are makes you happy, then go for it!
I dated in the past, I am married now, it's all a rollercoaster but I don't complain. I like "rollercoasters" and ride on them in the amusement park!!
Peace!

Answer 6

Sounds like you've been really hurt and find it hard to trust again.
It's your life so live it how you feel most comfortable but I hope one day you do meet someone who shows you that all men are not the same and you find happiness.

Answer 7

Be all that you can be...
My take on this is you are a big girl to decided all those little and important things in your life -- all by yourself without my approval.

Answer 8

Gee, you sound just perfect for me! I need another angry woman - my self esteem has been to high for too long!
Will you make me beg for it - and not give it up enthusiastically - too? Are you always this, uh, 'charming'? Purr-fect!
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Oh, Lioncourt! It's YOU! LOL

Answer 9

I live to flirt, at least on P&S.

Answer 10

Sounds strong and self reliant..