I'm very sad to say that I had a baby with someone else. My boyfriend knows but my mom doesn't. The baby usaully stays with the dad. I can't do this any more. Please give me answers!
2007-04-19 11:39:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
Then tell them the truth..
2007-04-19 11:42:59 · answer #1 · answered by angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you can make the desision that is right for your child we all make mistakes and do silly things and hopefully learn from them i have a son who i know has a differen father but i will never ever let it out as this man is not a very nice person and the person i am with now is his father and is even on the birth certificate he knows but my son will never know so if you do not want your mum to know the truth then dont tell her but even if you cant keep this to yourself anymore and it is getting you down im sure your mum will not love you any less and will be proud that you are doing a great job of being a great mum i wish you the best of luck xx
2007-04-19 18:48:33 · answer #2 · answered by torphins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to fess up... Poor baby. What are you going to do when the baby can talk??? and twhen the baby becomes a child.... The poor thing is going to feel very regected. Do it now it is always easier than doingf it later when they are say 2. That is a secret you would have been hiding for 2 years...
2007-04-19 18:44:07 · answer #3 · answered by Iamme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, sweetie. I'm sorry, but I don't quite understand your question. It sounds like you had a baby with someone other than your boyfriend, and that other man has the baby most of the time. Why? Why don't you have the baby? Can you not take care of your baby?
2007-04-19 18:44:40 · answer #4 · answered by purplebinky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does your mom not know you have a baby?? or does your mom just does not know it's not your boyfriend's baby?? those are two VERY different situations, so can you clear up your question.
2007-04-19 18:49:43 · answer #5 · answered by Jealous?? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what to say, what is it that you can't do anymore? I hope that you can talk to your mom about this so maybe she can help you out with what you need.
best of luck to you
2007-04-19 18:44:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell everyone the truth. you will feel better about yourself. try it.
2007-04-19 18:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Words to live by:
HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY
2007-04-19 18:49:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest :)
good luck.
2007-04-19 18:43:25 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell your mother.
2007-04-19 18:43:28 · answer #10 · answered by pregnantmomma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋