when my girl of four years left me a month ago I spent weeks trying to get her back.two days ago I told her that i was tired of her crap.then I told her that I was not going to be her puppet any more.now she is calling me alot.I have gone on. its just before she would not even talk to me now she calls me three times a day.
2007-04-19 11:09:11 · 17 answers · asked by I compared clutch reels and LeBron is still king 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it is a matter of now wanting something she cant have. dont get back with her it will be different
2007-04-19 11:14:03 · answer #1 · answered by skcs11 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the old you don't know what you've got until it's gone theory. You did it with her, and now she's doing it with you.
Decide what you want to do now. Even though you've moved on, do you still love her and want to consider getting back together with her ? If so, take her phone call, schedule an appointment to talk, and then decide if there's something left between you to save.
If you truly no longer love her, answer one last phone call to tell her it's truly over, and not to bother you again. After that, block her number, no more calls or visits.
2007-04-23 17:55:05 · answer #2 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep on movin on! She is just playing games. She left you and she liked the thought that you were still trying to get her back. Now that you have given up it bugs her and that is why she is calling you. If you did go back to her she would probably do the same way as before. Ever hear of wanting what you can't have? Well that is probably the case here. Just ignore her calls. She will eventually give up.
2007-04-19 18:38:42 · answer #3 · answered by susie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will tell you exactly what happend...
She loves you but...
Maybe in some way that you acted or someways that have not acted has made her want to scare you in to acting the way she wants you to be. Her solution was to break up with you because she knew that no matter how you act you love her and you did not want the break up to happen.
Now that you are tired of the bullcrap (which it really is immature) she sees that she might not have you wrapped around her finger anymore.. the game she was trying to play blew up in her face and she is desperately trying to hold on to you now.
Tell her you dont want any games and that the breaking up card got really old when she did it and if she wants to be with you than she has to accept you for what you are and how you love her.
good luck!
2007-04-19 18:17:44 · answer #4 · answered by GIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man....I am in the same situation except the roles are reversed. I am getting to a point of giving up.....I dont think that you should continue talking to her. You tried to make things work, and she blew you off. She was most likely thinking that you would never give up on her. Its good that you have.....continue to do so, dont allow her to play head games with you or your emotions.
2007-04-19 18:13:18 · answer #5 · answered by Miss. American Nightmare 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Adam take your pole and go fishing somewhere else, there are plenty of fish in the sea. Go catch you a keeper. Good Luck
2007-04-19 18:17:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she liked watching you jump through hoops to get her back and she enjoyed ignoring you. Now the tables are turned. When or if she gets your attention, she'll ignore you again.
2007-04-19 18:12:52 · answer #7 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people want what they thing that they can't have. And it's not easy to find a woman that you can treat like a lady.
2007-04-19 18:14:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she became interested in you again once you stopped being a doormat for her to walk all over.
2007-04-19 18:14:25 · answer #9 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she was waiting for you to put her in her place. Were you too lax in the relationship? If not that, maybe she just realizes what she lost since she had all that time alone.
2007-04-19 18:13:52 · answer #10 · answered by Mimi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its time for u to move on. There is no gaurantee that she will not go back to her normal self when u guys patch up.
2007-04-20 08:36:28 · answer #11 · answered by lemon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋