i am 15 years old from scotland (falkirk) i think i coluld be pregant i have been with my boyfriend for a long time now and love each other very much but had 1 drunken night and didn,t use protection but i cant tell my parents about it because my boyfriend is 16..if i am pregnant and want an abortin as i am 2 young 4 a child do the doctors have 2 inform ur parents if u want an ebortion under the age of 16?? plz i know i am stupid 4 havin unprotected sex and i know that i should do adults things if i cant face the consiquences and i know uz must think i am a stupid little girl with a boy who probably only uses me 4 sex but he waited 3 months 4 me 2 have sex with him and we r deaply in love so please dont diss me i only want advice.
-> KiiMY..<3 xx
2007-04-19 10:55:01 · 10 answers · asked by wee kim babe!!* <3 x 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
WOW! He waited three months for you? He's a keeper! (sarcasm) Honestly, I think you are going to have to tell your parents. It'll be hard, but you can do it. Like you said you did an adult thing, now you gotta face the music... Just tell them . They will be mad, upset, frustrated with you and everything else, but they will get over it and do what is best for you. It's not the end of the world if you have a baby. Sure, things will definately be different, but babies are gifts. You can't help but love em. Just tell your parents, they will help you in this, trust me.
2007-04-19 11:01:34 · answer #1 · answered by mrs.russell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all throw away that 3 month rule, try 2 years. Coming from a guy this might sound cheesy, but me and my first girlfriend waited 2 year until we first had sex. (which was provoked by her) Should have waited longer but there is no changing the past. First of all take a home pregnancy test or go to the doctor to get a pregnancy test to confirm that you are pregnant. I don't thing that anyone under the age of 148 can get an abortion without the knowledge or consent of their parents. But that varies from place to place. Don't down yourself for what you did in the past. Try to learn from it, take the consequences and make for a better future.
Good Luck!!
2007-04-19 18:10:17 · answer #2 · answered by ♫♪2 kids+1 wife=magical♪♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing to diss you realize that you have messed up and that is a start....but you really need to tell your parents they may be mad at first but they will come around.......My sister had a baby at your age and she has done just fine......I really wish that you would give it some thought about the abortion....It is your right, but please weigh the good with the bad......This baby was given to you for a reason.......All creatures are put here for a specific purpose.......You need to make sure of what is right for you........Even with that said I still think that you should inform your parents because anything can go wrong and you will need some physical and emotional support......If you need to talk feel free to email me I knwo where you are at and what you are going through and it is not by no means an easy decision.....And by no means is that decision something that can be made over night.....
2007-04-19 18:03:07 · answer #3 · answered by janet u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would get a pregnancy test and see if it is positive. Second I am from the U.S.A. and you have to have parental consent to have an abortion. If you are pregnant, is there no adult you can talk to, that can help you sort through this. I don't think you are stupid, you made a mistake, learn from it. If your boyfriend is using for sex, get rid of him, you deserve better. I wish you the best of luck.
2007-04-19 18:29:20 · answer #4 · answered by andrelia23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur a sick chick. Cant; u control ur itching in ur pussy atleast until u get major? If u and ur bf are in Arab, both of u will be beaten by stone to death in public. Even in Scotland, both are minor and are criminals for doing like this. Many girls who have sex at this age may become a prostitute after they turn 18 or 20. U may also become a big prostitute one day. Inform your parents as no doctor will do abortion for a minor girl. U may also be jailed in ur country for this.
2007-04-23 08:21:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what the laws are in your country.
I'm sorry for what you are going through. I'm sure you are freaking out. But, stop and think about your options. Maybe you can give this baby up for adoption? If you really love your boyfriend, and he loves you, this baby is a gift from God.
2007-04-19 17:59:43 · answer #6 · answered by purplebinky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are pregnant you should tell your parents either way abortions have thier consequences one of them is that once you do an abortion you have a chance that you might not be able to have anymore childeren ... and honestly it isnt the baby's fault why would you take thier life away if you had the chance to live why cant your baby just think about please ... there are many women that would love that angle i should know i lost my baby ... it was the worst day of my life
2007-04-19 22:36:15 · answer #7 · answered by Gloria R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all make sure you are pregnant and if you are go to your local family planning clinic they will be able to give you all the advice that you need hope every thing works out OK for you and your parents might surprise you and be supportive
2007-04-19 18:04:11 · answer #8 · answered by nicola s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you should never have sex drunk its just commen sence but what ever I dont know about scotland's laws but here in the us you don't have to have your parents permision
2007-04-20 15:30:26 · answer #9 · answered by Enanis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welli guess you know what you should be doing for your age and what not to be doing for your age but the only thing i can tell you is get a test and go to a clinic and tell them you want to know if your preg and from there decide what you gonna do and let themknow you need help
2007-04-19 18:02:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋