Ok well I used to like my guy friend (J) but now I'm starting to like my other guy friend (D)...I always thought J liked me but I was never sure...but after my friend asked him out and he said yes then I thought I was jumping to conclusions way too fast...A couple days ago D and I started e-mailing eachother and he has become extremelly nice to me...yesterday my friend asked me if I liked D infront of J (didn't didn't hear her asking)and I said no (because she always tells everybody) but ever since then J always flirts with me when I'm with him or when he walks past me in the hall and is nice to me all the time...but I just don't like him as much as I did before...in the meantime me and D keep e-mailing eachother and I feel like he's the only person I can have a "smart" conversation with w/o feeling "overly" smart...so I don't know what to do...please help
2007-04-19 10:41:12 · 10 answers · asked by problem_girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just continue to flirt and be nice around (J), you know let him know that ur his friend and all that but dont do anything that would make him think that you like him. and continue to email (D) and let him be really nice to you. having a little fun never hurt anyone.
good luck
2007-04-19 11:13:01 · answer #1 · answered by queenofthefield24 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Platonic friendships can be among the best for not having the time wasting 'trying to hook up' going on all the time - if one person thinks the other is trying to make it more serious, then that person must immediately state their desire to keep it Platonic - a true friend will respect that.
2007-04-19 10:47:21 · answer #2 · answered by Ben 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK go with "D" i think that you should give him a chance! just make it clear that you really want to be friends if you break up. if that is what you want. but then if you really like "J" make it show that "D" talks about how good you are and that you are amazing lol so maybe it will chance "J" mind lol
2007-04-19 10:47:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. The truth will set you free. You can be friends with both of them. Get to know them as friends before deciding if you want to date either of them. If you like D more, and he asks you out, then you can go out with him. Be honest. I would get to know them as friends. You do not have to be more than friends with either of them and you can tell J you only want to be friends with him. Nothing more.
2007-04-19 10:46:52 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be the only one to make that choice. Ask yourself, who do you feel more comfortable with, which one are you attracted to most. It appears "D" is the one that you have stable conversation with. Because "J' is paying attention to you now, could it be that you are more attracted to him?
2007-04-19 10:51:27 · answer #5 · answered by Susie L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you already know what to do....go for D! keep flirting and e-mailing him . I hope it works out for you. Listen to your heart!
2007-04-19 10:46:01 · answer #6 · answered by Kimberly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should go for it with D without feeling guilty towards J as think about it did he feel guilty wen he went out with the other girl? nope.so jst be friendly with j but go for it with D.
good luck!
2007-04-19 10:49:20 · answer #7 · answered by trendy_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you shouldn't let j hold you back 4rm D. It seems like you have more in common with d. Anywayz GO 4 It!!!!!!!!!!
2007-04-19 10:48:25 · answer #8 · answered by Pirat3chic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can really say is follow your heart, But it sounds like "J" was just a small crush.
2007-04-19 10:49:20 · answer #9 · answered by buddy_the_freak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do wot your heart tells you too.
2007-04-19 10:45:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋