My wife says I'm insenitive, unemotional, rude, overbearing, controlling and abusive.....but other than that I'm a pretty nice guy.
Can you help me out?
2007-04-19 09:52:34 · 33 answers · asked by prouddaddy 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hey, I'm just kidding......I luv you girls...you give me great advice....I love y'all for that.......
I am trying to patch things up w/ my woman...I don't call her names....But she is hell to live w/some times....Yes I know I am too. I'm not perfect...I'm working on it.....I'm a work in progress....I know, I know I need help....mental help....
2007-04-19 10:09:04 · update #1
I'm not controlling except for wanting to buy our kids things...
I give her the money every month b/c she has to have manage our bank account.
We are just really different. I'm trying.
2007-04-19 10:11:44 · update #2
I'm controlling only in the fact that I don't agree with her 100% of the time. Yes I'm the controlling one.
2007-04-19 10:13:26 · update #3
Thanks... dawnb......for the kind words.
2007-04-19 10:31:02 · update #4
You must be having a bad day and needed a little light-heartedness. Anyone with a title proud daddy can't be all bad. I've read many of your responses and you usually are right on. I guess some of the others just didn't get your little bit of fun. Good luck making up!
2007-04-19 10:17:06 · answer #1 · answered by dawnb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you broads should read all you ladies out there...for one.
Increase your vocabulary that would help alot...think before you do.
Remember for every action there is a reaction...so what reaction are you looking for and what action do you need to get that reaction.
If it is love making..."drop your drawers" just don't do it for a woman. That action would get a neg, reaction.
The controlling part is remember you are married to a woman not your child...she has a mind and a life...let her have it.
Overbearing: Just sit back and let things happen...do not try and create it...you are not God and the world has already been made...so just live in it and do not try and make everyone do as you say.
Insensitive...a little kindness goes a long way, a little dab will do you. If your wife looks nice say it...if she wants you to drive to the store with her to get a coke,,,ride...it ain't gonna hurt you...I bet you will live through it. If your wife likes to watch TV with you while you are in your recliner...buy her a recliner and put it next to yours...that way you can hold hands and talk without taking across the room.
I could go on and on but i am sure your wife has said most of this and what ever else is written after you read this....listen the next time she tells you.
2007-04-19 10:07:47 · answer #2 · answered by jeeccentricx2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call us broads..... Your wife is right to say " I'm insenitive, unemotional, rude, overbearing, controlling and abusive" but what man doesn't have most of those qualities? Of course you don't have all of the good qualities women do. you were just a rough draft. Just find some books at the library "Mars and Venus" for one. I comend you for making an effort trying to understand her.
2007-04-19 20:31:07 · answer #3 · answered by bobcatlady2u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some one needs to treat you like you treat her. How about starting by calling you a broad a*****, forget your birthday, or holidays, don't be home to cook dinner, don't clean the house , don't do your laundry for a while . Treat you like dirt under her feet for a while.
Treat you wife like a queen, she deserve the best in life , not the left overs, or your dirty laundry. Remember what goes around comes around. If you are treating her like dirt , it will happen to you. She will be the one taking care of you when you are old and gray. Treat the lady that will be wiping your a*** and chin after you have a stroke, with a lot of kindness, or your payback maybe worse than what you dished out to her.
2007-04-19 09:59:00 · answer #4 · answered by springer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you see a cat or dog cross the street say "oh that animal does not have a home." The next time your wife calls you a name say "That just really hurt me inside and make your eyes water or run to the bath room and splash water on your eyes not obvious though and look deep into her eyes" Next time someone says something rude say "That was so mean of them, I am so hurt right now" controlling and overbearing act like you don't really care and abusive shame on you.
2007-04-19 09:58:49 · answer #5 · answered by ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh really, I couldn't tell any of that by you using the word "broads"!!! In my experience people who have some of your "qualities" have very low self-esteem. People who are controlling and abusive like the feeling they get when they put others down. It makes them feel powerful. Maybe you and your wife should talk to someone if she's willing to put up with your abuse. There are some underlying feelings you have that you need to get to the bottom of before your marriage can heal. You have to love yourself before you can love others! Good luck
2007-04-19 10:11:34 · answer #6 · answered by fungirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you want to help yourself. You need to ring up the Police and put yourself in for abusing your wife....or ring a counsellor who would be sympathetic to an abusive husband....good luck. Other than that, tell your wife to leave you. Your wife must be just as silly as you are for putting up with it...so both of you need to help yourselves.
2007-04-19 10:00:53 · answer #7 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume you were trying to be funny with the "you broads" comment LOL
Can you give me an example of what you say or do that causes her to refer to you that way?
Do you walk in the door and say "Hey Broad, I'm home my freaking dinner better be on the table or I'm gonna kick your fat ***?
2007-04-19 10:03:24 · answer #8 · answered by hi_stk_n 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how can you be abusive and rude, controlling, unemotional. and be a nice guy. stop call women broads that's rude if you call your wife that it's a surprise she is still married to you. if you love her you will change because if you don't you will push her right out the door.
2007-04-19 09:57:31 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if i refer to u as being a dick, would you be offended? Your wife deserves better. what u believe u r, and what u acting like is 2 different things.
US BROADS, live in reality, u should consider joining us. ohhh, wait no, stay where u r, your warped sense of self worthiness might be tarnished.
2007-04-19 09:59:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋