2007-04-19 09:03:04 · 7 answers · asked by Jackie Oh! 7 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
When I was in middle school, a group of girls just decided to be mean to me for some reason, and every day they would hurl insults about my face, hair, clothes, etc. at me, pretty much all day long, to the point where I was coming home from school crying every day. It's not an unusual story- a lot of girls are unfortunately plagued by "mean girl" syndrome. I honestly wish I would have handled it differently- that is, after trying to reason with the girls and getting nowhere, I wish I would have punched the ringleader right in her big fat face and left her to bleed by her locker. I know that's not the most mature response, but I really think it would have gotten those girls off my back if I had just taken a stand, instead of just cowering in the corner all the time. I did nothing, however, and eventually all but one or two of them left me alone, The other two remained a thorn in my side until the day I graduated from high school. At age 27, I still have an irrational fear of teenage girls- like when I'm eating lunch and a group of them come in from the local high school, I start getting all panicky and worrying that they're talking about me, which I know is nuts. I have evolved a lot from the frizzy-haired, geeky girl they used to pick on, and nobody who knows me now even believes that I was not popular in school, but I still have considerable self-esteem damage thanks to those girls. I look forward to my high school reunion next year- NO, I will NOT be punching anybody, LOL, but I do want to personally let them know that they made me miserable pretty much every day. Then I will just let them see how fantastic my life turned out, and that will be that. No hard feelings whatsoever.
2007-04-19 09:14:15 · answer #1 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What people say to me doesn't really affect me. I could care less what other people think of me.
The meanest thing I've said lately is when I called someone I know a "hill-billy-hay-seed-corn-fed- in bred - red neck-uncircumcised-hick from Tennessee".
2007-04-19 09:10:34 · answer #2 · answered by pm 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
An ex-boyfriend instructed me that he'd had better shags.the real difficulty grew to become into the shown fact which you may desire to no longer probably have good intercourse with a 2" weener. It explains why he remains single after 30 years.
2016-12-29 10:41:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I told my mother that I was tired of her trying to make decisions for me. I want to make my own. (I am a grown adult; a single mother of two beautiful babies)
She said to me "I tried letting you make your own decisions..." then gestured towards my children like, "and look what you did"
I ignored it. Something so hurtful would cause me to do something I would regret had I reacted on emotions.
2007-04-19 09:09:57 · answer #4 · answered by BellaJ_DDils 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most of those things I couldn't post on here.
2007-04-19 09:26:07 · answer #5 · answered by Teia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That they didn't love me anymore. I didn't do anything because that was basically the end of the relationship.
2007-04-19 09:06:48 · answer #6 · answered by Hawkster 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't remember. I try to be deaf to rudeness and flattery.
2007-04-19 09:12:55 · answer #7 · answered by Salt-n-Fire 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋