How can I get that out of my mind? I feel like I am going crazy!!!
Btw I'm above 21 y.o.
2007-04-19 08:53:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
If you are a lesbian, which you are. . .you should make movies and let me watch them.
2007-04-19 08:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
I would be asking my self do I like girls, Do I like Going out with just girls and not pick up blokes, Am I happy when I am with a Bloke say a Boy friend.
It is not a problem if you wonder the problem its what gets you started about thinking of Being a Lesbian.
Your girl freiands may start pulling away from you if thay found out. You would have to talk to your GP and He can Send you to a phycologist to talk to you about your fillings and thay can work out what triggers them.
It could be in dreams if it is it wont hert you, I am a male and married and I have had thoughts and dreams of doing it with other males and I just keep telling my self I love my wife and kids and I would not do anything to destroy this relationship.
I all so dream of doing it with lesbians but will never act on it, I have even been propasitioned to do it with two girl freiands and declined, silly me, the ones you knock back are the ones you will never get again my Nethew keeps telling me.
What the defernition of two woman in the 69 position it is another woman stilling a mans job. Hope this helps you out.
2007-04-27 07:48:59 · answer #2 · answered by Jim Bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel compelled to be with another woman rather than A man? Are you Unattracted to men? Do you feel a Loathing towards Men? Many people are really just Bi, and could be with either sex. It's a confusing world these days. especialy for Young people. If You Are just shy towards guys, Well Thats a possibility, too. Whatever you decide, good luck. Its no easier to be one or the other. You still have to be in some sort of relationship. and the thing is, when you are dealing with another Human on a daily live with basis. there are going to be some problems. And Some happiness. Its dealing with humans that is trying, no matter what sex they are.
2007-04-19 16:07:09 · answer #3 · answered by Big hands Big feet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not crazy, alot of girls around that age go through the same thing.....I did.
It's quite common, maybe you just need to experiment a little (safely of course) to find out if that's what you prefer. Who knows, you might even be Bisexual. Do you still think about men in a sexual way?
I tried experimenting with the same sex when i was younger, and found that although i had fun at the time, it really wasn't my preference.
Hope this helps.
2007-04-26 23:45:54 · answer #4 · answered by AussieRocker27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got in trouble and a violation for this before so I won't answer as I said I would not.
NOW Go to Society and Culture and find the right sub-category where they can tell you. Find that category!! There are some KIND (Hello?) and educated people there who will understand. If someone makes a smart-alec crack or is rough and didactic with you, that isn't very kind, now is it? Ask someone with an education.
2007-04-19 16:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some reasons that are hard-wired into the brain, it is easier for women to be attracted to other women, than for men to be attracted to other men. I forget where I saw and read this, but it was a scientific kind of article. AH, now I remember--last weeks NY Times, Tuesday April 10.
So the implication is, that for women, it's normal to feel like you do, and not crazy.
2007-04-19 16:13:23 · answer #6 · answered by DinDjinn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder if this is a new thought or one that has bothered you for some time now. If you are attracted to women sexually then maybe you are a lesbian or bisexual. If you find women attractive but aren't sexually attracted to them, then I think you are just a normal female. You will find your way in time. Whatever your sexual preference is no ones business but yours and you should feel good about yourself no matter what you decide. Be honest with yourself and all will work out for you.
2007-04-19 16:04:27 · answer #7 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to get it out of your mind. That is unhealthy. Any thought that arrives in your mind is there for some reason. I'm not saying that you are a lesbian but that maybe you have some ambiguity with your personal identification. I recently read that Freud wrote any number of times on his own homosexual thoughts. He himself thought he was a latent homosexual while later theorists believe that he was most likely confusing homosexual thoughts with more general issues of confusion.
2007-04-19 16:01:08 · answer #8 · answered by Siddler 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, your're not crazy but you should examine why you feel that way? who are the people in your life now? if you love women, and not men, you should examine what kind of love is that.. there maybe times in our life that women friends are more understanding and tolerating but if you love then without lust and only serving your needs in terms of comapanionship then you are not lesbian
2007-04-27 00:08:55 · answer #9 · answered by rainbow07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I generally go with a rule of saying that goes, "When in doubt-throw it out" In other words, your mind is playing with you and it`s an absurd idea for you to entertain what your mind is making you think about. Make sense? In other words, you probably Are Not A lesbian -S
2007-04-19 16:00:11 · answer #10 · answered by CulinaryCad 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think if you are wondering then you should check into it some more. If you are thinking about girls in a sexual way chances are you might be a lesbian. I think you should try kissing a girl and if you like it then you have your answer.
2007-04-19 15:59:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋