making new friends?

Question

i have a few friends not many.im 18 years old.i keep getting this feeling depressed feeling that my friends dont like me anymore,i tryed making new friends but i end up talking to people than they dont like me.im always realy happy and i end up laughting at anythink,even if its not that funny and im always smileing.thing people are sort of gettuing annoyed cause i talk alot and laught alot.and also i talk about ramden stuff or im quite.

my few friends i have i hardly see,and seeing a picture of my of my friends on myspace having fun with her other friends made me feel realy depressed.how can i make new friends.

Answer 1

find people who are more interested... some of us like to chat... :D

Answer 2

when you hear young people talking join in and talk away and then they might talk back and then if they think you are a person then they Will ask you to be their friends and you got to say yes cause if you don't then you just loose a people who were gonna be your friends


i was like that when my friend think I'm not good enough so i had to say to them to p*ss off and off they went but the mean thing is i miss having them as my mate cause they were a good laugh but now i got a new friends and they are better than my old friends cause the reason why they want me to be their friends is because they think I'm funny and do what my mate would do, i just copy them and they get to like me and they think I'm the best of friend and every weekends we always go out for a drink and have a good laugh or sometimes when people slabberd to us we always beat them up hehe, but all I'm say is that you will make a better friends than you hang about with your old mate....so good luck

Answer 3

lol, omg. i totally identify w/ u. i always have a 'happy' barrier up, and even my closest friends have hardly even seen me without it. by nature, i m quite and reserved, but i pretend 2 b smily/ happy/ cheerleader peppy 24/7 so i don't have 2 deal w/ it. it's fun 2 pretend as well. i m trying 2 let ppl in, trying 2 tone it down a little, tryin 2 deal w/ it, but its a step by step process. wat i find is that ppl just a few yrs younger than u tend 2 b rlly accepting of stuff. go out and meet ppl, be somewat cheery, but dont feel like u gotta b some1. seek out the quiet ppl; mostly they're just happy 2 have some1 talking 2 them and it is amazing how much they will have in common w/ u. take risks, and don't let ppl get 2 u. hold ur head high, as hard as it is sometimes. and i m a total hypocrite in saying all this, but it's the advice i'm trying 2 follow myself. good luck 2 u!!

Answer 4

I know how you feel, I think we all feel alone sometimes.

One piece of advice I can offer is perhaps you should try to be more of a listener, less of a talker? Perhaps you have such a bright shining personality that others feel when you are around its hard to compete for the attention?

Figure out some of your likes, get involved in sports or volunteer, I've met lots of nice people that way

Answer 5

i think that a few people here have missed the fact that some people actually laugh quite easily because it's how they just are... i don't think that you should compromise yourself and stop laughing just to make a mask and to get people to like you (unless if you ARE actually faking the laughing part). i'm one of those people kind of like you, but i do have a few alright friend currently. i love laughing and making others laugh, what can i say? sorry, not very good at making new friends though, but i just want to say one thing, don't compromise yourself if it's just you (unless if you have a very negative demeanor such as being an *** or faking).

Answer 6

i got the same problem a year or so ago...since then i have moved home and started at a college where i have made friends. my old friends were real good people but i always felt that i didn't fit in. my new friends (as we're all a bit older now) are more individual- more like me! One of them enjoys the same things as me and we can talk about them(the mighty boosh and the rocky horror show!)
# if someone likes the same things as you then you will just click.
# Just talk about what interests you and someone will like the same...be yourself, be individual...
# dont try to hard to fit in as it should be natural. news friends will love you for who you are.
# compliments are always good to give as it makes that person like you!
# put forward your views and opinions on things so that people can see you for who are and what your about...
my new friends love me for who i am.

Answer 7

i'm like you i don't have very many friends at all either.i have one best friend.we grew up together.my suggestion is not well you can go up to people and start having a conversation with them and try not to laugh all that much.be leave me i learned not to that.i started out quite and shy and now im happy and laughing.if they don't like the way you are then they are not a very good friend

Answer 8

You don't worry. There are friends for all us, people that doesn't how to appreciate you, doesn't merit your friendship.

Little greetings. Excuse me, I'm learning English, I believe that sometimes I have many and several mistakes.

Answer 9

u knw ppl like ppl who talk less but sensible......its always gud to keep smiling but plz never forcibly laugh ppl thnk tht u r getting bored in their company thts y u r forcibly laughing......
whenever v meet new ppl its always nice 2 talk less wid them n keep smiling it gives a nice impression.....work out in ur habits n u wil hv many frnds...........k gud luck

Answer 10

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