What are going to do when you secretly liking your male best friend and you have already your sweetheart?

Question

You're already best friends for years and you secretly admiring him but he doesnt know.. But you have already your sweetheart. What are going to do?

Answer 1

No-one can tell you what to do, you have to decide for yourself. A word of warning though. Say you tell your friend how you feel. Will he return those feelings or feel really awkward? If he doesn't feel the same about you then your friendship could end because things would be weird between you. You didn't actually say you loved him, just that you liked him so is that worth breaking up with your b/friend and losing a best friend?

Answer 2

Just ask yourself one question, what will you miss more his friendship or his love. knowing your friend for so long I'm sure you have an idea of what he would be like within a relationship. Also, for me anyway kissing is really important if their not a good kisser then that can be a deal breaker for me any how. I'd be interested to know how it goes. i had a thing for one of my female friend's, in the long run it broke my heart an subsequently broke our friendship. So be careful and good luck.

Answer 3

make a desision either get back on track with ur sweetheart or call it a day coz he deserves ur full attention or be allowed to move on dont do anything else till one or other of these are put into action xxx

Answer 4

well it all depends on who you like more..sometimes the best of friends can make the best couples..i mean you are not shy around each other cuz you have known each other for years and is use to it..but if you like the other boy more than you dont need to lead him on..but if you like him enough then you need to tell him how you feel and go from there!!

Answer 5

Nothing.

Answer 6

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