Yet again another school shotting from bulling. It's wrong for him to take other lives but there's only so much someone can take. You have to feel sorry for both sides. I think schools needs to start doing something other than sitting back and watching these people get teased. Just because he was shy was no reason for anyone to knock him. What do you think?
2007-04-19 07:12:25 · 26 answers · asked by Phantasie 2 in News & Events ➔ Current Events
When I was in Jr High school, I was teased. It was horrible and very emotionally painful. I was always told by the teachers who would not help me that it was my fault. I could NOT find a date and the only friends I had were outcasts like me. RUSH (the band) even made a song about situations like this, it's called "Subdivisions"
How did I stop it? I found a niche in something that I'm good at, music and art. I found kindred spirits and found out how to be more mature than the people who were teasing me. I learned to tease back. I grew up. I didn't shoot people.
2007-04-19 07:18:33 · answer #1 · answered by madbaldscotsman 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't feel sorry for him at all. They now claim that he was teased and picked on by others and so he decides to seek revenge by killing 32 innocent people. I too was teased, beaten and picked on when I was a child and I never did anything to others.
Cho Seung-Hui was a coward and so committed a very cowardly act.
As to your comment about schools controlling those who tease others, well they do as a matter of fact, they have a program called "No Bullying" or "Anti-Bullying" and they take it very seriously. But if you look at it very realistically, how is a school going to be able to stop every bully? They can't because there aren't enough resources to do that type of work. Also, if Cho was teased by others at Virginia Tech, then that is a very poor reflection on the maturity of the students currently attending that university.
But unfortunately it is human nature to pick on those who are classified as weak and shy. It stinks and I wish people would stop, but I don't ever seeing that happen in the future.
2007-04-19 07:24:14 · answer #2 · answered by lremmell64 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If he needed support, he had his family and teachers to help him anytime. Even teachers were there to help, but he never wanted support for them. He also wasn’t friendly towards others and that’s why he didn’t have any frends. I suffered from depression too, but I wasn’t afraid to ask for help since I knew I had take responsibilities to help myself. I wonder why he didn’t ask for support from anybody (even his family members didn't know what he was going through!) and chose to be alone? Also, I was just like him too and had a speech/stuttering problem. I was bullied and teased all the time at school too, but that didn’t lead me to kill people. It probably angered me and made me cry at night everyday, but I was strong enough to let it go and keep holding my head up high. As for Cho, when people teased him, he wasn’t strong enough to cope with it and kept the anger inside of him. I hope you can understand and realize that he was the one who made the decisions to not help himself. He had a lot of issues with himself, was extremely weak, and didn’t know how to move on with life. In my opinion, I feel sorry for both sides. But I feel more bad for the victims. If you think about it, Cho did more crimes than the victims because shooting people is much more worse than bullying others.... I hope this would make you think about it a little more...
2007-04-20 18:30:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I do not consider sorry for him in any respect. They now declare that he used to be teased and picked on by way of others and so he comes to a decision to search revenge by way of killing 32 blameless folks. I too used to be teased, crushed and picked on whilst I used to be a little one and I not ever did some thing to others. Cho Seung-Hui used to be a coward and so dedicated an excessively cowardly act. As in your remark approximately faculties controlling people who tease others, good they do in truth, they've a software referred to as "No Bullying" or "Anti-Bullying" they usually take it very severely. But if you happen to seem at it very realistically, how is a university going to be ready to give up each bully? They can not due to the fact that there are not ample assets to try this form of labor. Also, if Cho used to be teased by way of others at Virginia Tech, then that's an excessively deficient mirrored image at the adulthood of the pupils presently attending that tuition. But regrettably it's human nature to select on those who find themselves categorized as susceptible and shy. It stinks and I desire folks might give up, however I do not ever when you consider that occur one day.
2016-09-05 17:28:28 · answer #4 · answered by liebig 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry when a human being feels so badly that he takes the measures that he took...like what kind of suffering was he undertaking that he would think it okay to destroy 32 human beings, but even more, to maim others who will suffer for life? I feel badly for him as a human being, but honestly I am glad he is not around anymore. God will judge him accordingly. I know the families of the victims are suffering unduly.
They need our prayers, and really these type of prayers are within God's will -- he will hear these prayers, but God does not hear the prayers of the wicked one.
Proverbs 15: 29 --- Jehovah is far away from the wicked ones, but the prayer of the righteous ones he hears.
Cho should have chosen to pray for help, but what stopped him from doing so? Certainly God would have heard his prayer for help...so many turn to what is vile or evil instead of turning to God for help. Just imagine if everyone turned to God instead of blaming him whenever something goes bad. Who really is to blame? Could it be humans and....Satan??
James 1: 12 - 15
12 Happy is the man that keeps on enduring trial, because on becoming approved he will receive the crown of life, which Jehovah promised to those who continue loving him. 13 When under trial, let no one say: “I am being tried by God.” For with evil things God cannot be tried nor does he himself try anyone. 14 But each one is tried by being drawn out and enticed by his own desire. 15 Then the desire, when it has become fertile, gives birth to sin; in turn, sin, when it has been accomplished, brings forth death.
2007-04-19 07:25:32 · answer #5 · answered by KimIsland 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know what I feel for Cho, the whole thing was just like him, so many question marks! It could be the bullies, it could be proverty, it could be his looks, it could be the cultural shock, it could be the parents.....we all have to encounter different challenges in life and we do not ended up shooting other innocent people or to get even. We might be hurt in the past, but we learn and improve. If one does not want to help himself, nobody can! It is easier to blame the whole world....at least I think Cho did!
2007-04-19 08:13:23 · answer #6 · answered by hhbasile 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you have a WHOLE LOT of catching up to do!!! I don't know what misit fed you the information you got but this individual was NOT suffering on account of bullying and neither was he "just shy." He was derranged and mentally unbalanced, and the only reason why I MIGHT feel bad for him is because he didn't receive the attention and the help he needed. Then again, he seems to have refused the little bit he got anyway.
I hope you get your story straight so you don'ty propagate more wrong information and so you don't waste your time and sentiments on the wrong issues. The dude was screwed up!!! and had VERY bad feelings toward the wrong people.
Let me say this here because it's bothering me, that I've noticed the absence of references to his parents and sister, and THAT's where my sentiments are...because they MUST HAVE known something odd about this guy and now they're bound to suffer lots for sheltering him. That's who I'm sorry for.
2007-04-19 07:29:40 · answer #7 · answered by forlove 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just because people treated you badly it does not give you the right to go and murder 33 people. That's bull. I see your point though. Schools brush problems like bullying under the table then things start to get out of hand. I wonder what could happen to you to make you angry enough to kill that many people, but you think the school would have seen it was an issue and talked to the kid, preventing a tragedy like the one that happened.
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2007-04-19 07:18:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I did not not read or hear any were that he was shy or teased by anyone, he was the one who would not talk to the other students, and he planned this whole killing spree,so no I don't feel sorry for him at all, my sympathies goes to the young people that he murdered
2007-04-19 07:27:49 · answer #9 · answered by sandyjean 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I do feel bad for him.
I'm not in his shoes to judge his actions.
I mean, I've nver been bullied
Maybe when i was younger n fat, but i beat those ppl up
haha!
Anyway, malaysian schools have taken serious actions against bullying
but still some do happen
I need u need to educate children more on this matter
Rather than punish them when they did it
2007-04-19 07:32:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋