Can poverty create materialism?

Question

I was talking to someone about shopping and they said that they expect to have nothing but the best and only buy brand name and expensive items now (or their boyfriends buy it for them) because they never had nice things growing up because they lived in poverty. Since then I have heard other people say the same thing. I always thought that growing up in poverty teaches you to value money more and you are more likely to spend your money wisely. What do you think?

Answer 1

I think like in many different situations there is the option to go "either" way.
For some people, they learn to value money when they grow up without any. Others feel like they have suffered with so little for so long that they feel that it's "their turn" to have something.

This also happens with people who were abused as children. Some continue the cycle, while others are able to break free from it.

Answer 2

perhaps the hidden factor is the extra lack of material items creates a want that is not exactly the same as materialism is a spoiled person, more like a longing to experience a bit.

Answer 3

When you have little to nothing, the only thing you have left is WANT! You might as well want the best. If you want the best, it makes you try a little harder and dig a little deeper. Don't fault anyone for big dreams. They will have to compromise just like the rest of us, and if they don't God Bless 'em!

Answer 4

I think it depends upon the person....my husband grew up dirt poor, and all he cares about is making sure we have a roof over our heads and clothes and food. he takes pride in helping me to provide those things....however, his mother, is very concerned about who has what and how much it cost. she's still dirt poor, but has never worked a day in her life outside of the home. some people feel entitled, some don't, that's all.

i don't feel entitled, i watched my parents work very hard to provide for us, and we didn't have much, just the basics, but it helps when parents teach their kids about hard work and rewards, instead of just buying them anything they want or not telling them how hard it is to earn the money to buy the "extras" every once in awhile.

Answer 5

Sometimes it does. Especially in consumerist America where having things to show off can be all important.

Answer 6

I don't feel poverty creates materialism.Low self esteem however does.

Answer 7

For being poverty-stricken, your friend has her standards raised just a LITTLE too high.

In the long run, doesn't EVERYONE want to die rich?