Ok, i am in love with my bestfriend and i can't help it.. we both are girls but she doesn't feel the same way. i realy want something to work out. . i need advice... we are both a little scared. <3 mee
2007-04-19 05:22:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Unfortunately, if she isn't gay or bi then nothing will work out. We are attracted to who we're attracted to. You can't turn a gay person straight and you can't turn a straight person gay. You're her best friend so you know better than me. If you believe that she is remotely interested in becoming more than friends with you then take it slow. Everything will fall into place and you won't be scared anymore. But be careful because turning your best friend into a romatic interest is risky if it doesn't work out and you might end up losing a friend. Good Luck
2007-04-19 05:30:29 · answer #1 · answered by Shelly E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You wrote, that she doesn't feel the same way? This should be your answer.
Why are you trying to make something happen when the other person told you that they didn't want it to happen?
You may need to distance yourself from this person, so that you can take a step back and look at this situation with a different perspective. Things might look a little differently once you start moving away from this person.
Don't try to make anything happen, it will ruin your friendship. Just take a little time off and really try to hang out with other friends, and family. There is no rush to make anything happen. If it is meant to happen, it will.
2007-04-19 12:29:07 · answer #2 · answered by pecksun8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully, it is hard to "stop" loving someone when they are very involved in your life. You may need a little time and space to get over her. If your are having a hard time accepting her wishes but she is your best friend, the last thing you want to do is disrespect her. Otherwise, you may end up loosing her completely. If she is interested but "scared" as you stated, respecting her wishes may make her feel more safe.
2007-04-19 12:35:18 · answer #3 · answered by adventure30 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love doesnt mean to get physical only..u can be with her at both her good and bad times.that shows ur love for her... best way is to continue as friends coz she doesnt feel that way and u dont wana lose her...dont force her ..u can lose her easily even as friend
2007-04-19 12:29:28 · answer #4 · answered by RCD 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just hang out with guys a little more than you hang out with her. You might have a crush on one of them.
2007-04-19 12:44:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but im gonna have to agree with alyssa because u already know she doesnt feel the same way why even try?
2007-04-19 12:28:14 · answer #6 · answered by clover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i'm a guy so i dont know how you girls feel but just give it one more try if not shes not from you best of luck for you two:}
2007-04-19 12:30:09 · answer #7 · answered by WEST SIDE EL KASPER 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"she doesnt feel the same way"
there's your answer (sorry)
just be happy you have her as your best friend
2007-04-19 12:26:41 · answer #8 · answered by alyssa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not the one to answer this
2007-04-19 12:27:21 · answer #9 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of something else,she doesn't want you.
2007-04-19 12:28:09 · answer #10 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋