2007-04-19 05:21:14 · 12 answers · asked by yahooanswers 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The better question is how can you be a better woman or wife.
You can't change your husband and if you married him thinking you could change him into something better then that's your problem - don't make it his.
2007-04-19 05:25:56 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is who he is and will remain that way. You can't change him, and in fact it would be wrong for you to try. You wouldn't be very happy if he tried to change things about you that you didn't think were wrong.
If there is something you don't like about your husband, then you shouldn't have married him. He was that way before, you knew it and either thought that you could change him after the fact or ignored it. Either way you gave up the right to complain and demand changes when you said "I do".
2007-04-19 12:26:00 · answer #2 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband should express the desire to be a better man. Encourage him in every way you can. We as women, make that mistake of trying to "fix"our men and make them into something they're not (or what they don't want to be).
2007-04-19 12:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by msshaden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by making him a better man
2007-04-19 12:23:54 · answer #4 · answered by joddie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
motivate him! make him want to be a better man dont make him feel he is not a good man.that should work!look 4 th eright time to do it tooo
2007-04-19 12:26:22 · answer #5 · answered by george 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better how, you cant change a person or make them better unless they are willing to make that change for themselves the only thing you can do is suggest things to them or what things you would like to see better in them.....
2007-04-21 13:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit worrying about tweeking him and worry about making yourself a better person.
2007-04-19 12:23:49 · answer #7 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you mean? Better as in sex? better as in working, self esteem, better as in less violent? Explain your self??
2007-04-19 12:25:17 · answer #8 · answered by Nissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as simply as love your husband better.. te deseo buena suerte.. !
2007-04-19 12:30:14 · answer #9 · answered by veronika_linda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is up to him! you cannot control what he thinks or feels, or the goals he ahs for himself! but you can encourage him to take self improvement classes!
2007-04-19 12:24:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋