they said im attractive but i dont have the guts and confidence to show all these things from me... i want to show it off but im rily shy.. i want to dress up nicely but the problem is that i dont think those nice dress would fit nicely in me also.. ps help me in boosting my confidence...thnX!!
2007-04-19 05:15:06 · 7 answers · asked by kitten 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
girl you have got to come out of the shell! put on what you think looks nice, i know it's easier said than done i feel the same way at times, but you have to make yourself, and trust me you will get the confidenceyou need once you get out. and by the way don't judge yourself by how the other girls look . just try to be yourself i promise you'll get through it and you will not need anyone's oppinion on how you look, you will know it for yourself!! and as the saying goes...YOU GO GIRL!!!!!!!!
2007-04-19 05:26:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am guessing that you are young, ie teens or 20s. Hopefully when you say dress up nicely, it does not mean those really tight tops that I see girls wear that make them look "easy". I would recommend that you find a tasteful and elegant clothing store rather than a trendy store. Then you must have patience and try on numerous clothes.
However, what I have discovered though is that if you don't feel good on the inside, you will not feel that much better even if you were stunning on the outside. You must do something that will boost your pride and dignity. How about doing well in school? Or volunteering for a worthy cause? Or working on a school project like the year book or something else?
Confidence usually radiates from within. Good luck.
2007-04-19 05:37:43 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm shy too, but we have to get out there and show those guys our stuff! go on a shopping spree and treat yourself to some clothes! & try taking a speech class @ a community college. I'm taking one in may (its toward becoming a pilot) but i think after the class, you'll feel more confident about yourself.
If you see a cute guy say hi and smile. He might just surprise you. Try making more friends, be more confident about yourself!
2007-04-19 05:25:23 · answer #3 · answered by lily_evans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marilyn Monroe didn't think she was beautiful either. I'd say fake it, pretend you are confident and people will believe you are and possibly you will eventually believe it too. Put on that dress, look in the mirror and tell yourself aloud that you look good. You don't have to believe it but say it like you do. Think of compliments you get and repeat them to yourself through out the day.
2007-04-19 05:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by Still*Perfect 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most attractive thing about any person is their smile - that's why California girls have that reputation for being beautiful - it's hard not to smile with all that great scenery and weather. Handle that and everything else is simple.
2007-04-19 05:25:05 · answer #5 · answered by Ben 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
make a list of all the things you like about your body then pick your best and flounce it.
e.g. legs - mini.
cleavage - v-neck.
start with one thing and then try others. if you feel too exposed in say,... a low cut top where trousers and a cardi as well.
2007-04-19 05:23:06 · answer #6 · answered by adelaide 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me see yer pic and i will compliment u on what i see
2007-04-19 05:20:09 · answer #7 · answered by Jim G 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋