So my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 months (always together) and everything was going great. He told me he fell hard for me and that I was the sweetest person he has ever met. He always wanted to be around me. We would spend the weekend together and he would go home and text me how much he was missing me and would come back that night lol. He was very sweet, affectionate and the sex was amazing. He just turned 21 and I am 26. We were so wrapped up with eachother that we haven't seen our friends since we met. So, he finally met with his friends last weekend and since then has been acting strange. I finally called him and asked him if he was unhappy or wanted to break up and see other people and he told me he wasn't saying that. I even told him I would be upset if he did but not angy at him. He said he just needed some "me" time. I told him I would give him a couple days to think and call him again later. He hasn't tried to call me or text me. Is it over?
2007-04-19 05:07:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Babygurl...lemme tell you...what I think is that he just needs some time for himself and the guys. I dont think its over. You know that you guys have spent alot of time together and he just needs a breather. I'm getting prepared for this with Ray. His best friend is moving down here and he cant stop talking about him. I know that once he moves down here it will no longer just be me and him ALL THE TIME like it is now. From what I have seen and heard he loves you and you love him. I wouldnt worry. Now if he's completley ignoring you and its been two three weeks and he still doesnt wanna hang. THEN i would worry. But whatever happens you know that I'm here for you and I love you bunches and bunches!!!!!!!
2007-04-19 05:44:11 · answer #1 · answered by ~* 3 Months Prego*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some time, it may be over. Only time will tell. It sounds like you guys moved way too fast. And the fact that you were together constantly didn't help. He is young, being with his friends probably got the wheels in his head turning... Is he ready for a serious relationship? Does he think a serious relationship= spending time together at all times and missing out on his friends? He probably got the wrong impression of what your guy's relationship would be like if it continues.
Don't be suprised if he ends it. Now that he is 21... the bars are not off limits anymore!
2007-04-19 05:30:25 · answer #2 · answered by Riddle me This! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do we women always jump to conclusions so quickly? Maybe, just maybe, HE is scared because of the closeness you guys have had these past two months and getting with his friends brought that home to him! Cut him some slack, please! Just let him know you understand, even if you don't and if it is meant to be, he will come back. If it was not meant to be, treasure the good times you had with him and move on.
Men do not know how to express that kind of fear ( about feeling good about somebody) . Drawing away from you is a defense mechanism so just be there for him. Good luck and God bless.
2007-04-19 05:16:30 · answer #3 · answered by gmabell 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he is still very immature. his friends are whispering in his ear. I'm 25 and have been married for 3 years now. I would tell him if he wants to have a relationship with you then be here for you. personally I would think it's over and find someone more mature and ready for commitment. sounds to me like you're ready for it. but he's not .My husband suggests you talk with his friends. don't stress you deserve better.
2007-04-19 05:25:27 · answer #4 · answered by rivers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not over he just misses his friends. Try setting up a bbq or something with his friends and him of course...Then you get time with him and his friends!
You will be ok. Spend some time with your friends too.
2007-04-19 05:11:23 · answer #5 · answered by supergoober 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His Friends have been talking to him, Give him his space, About 60 years worth, should do it,
2007-04-19 05:12:27 · answer #6 · answered by ThomasL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like to much to fast things like that are always fast fast start fast middle fast end
that how it will be if you guys dont slow down a bit take some time for yourselves bet his friends told him this exact thing
2007-04-19 05:11:52 · answer #7 · answered by Snowflake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not being honest with you. I've been in that situation and I found out there was another girl =(
So you need to sit him down and talk "the talk" with him and have him be really honest because its not fair to you.
2007-04-19 05:13:04 · answer #8 · answered by sh480150 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that if he hasnt text u or called u then u should call him and ask him what is going on..if that was me in ur situation i would have left .
2007-04-19 05:14:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are overanalyzing the situation.
2007-04-19 05:20:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋