Hello, my boyfriend and I have quite solid, outgoing, open and talkative relationship for almost 2 years now. Although we want to, we´ve never had sex because we want to be 100% sure in information preventing diseases and pregnancy. In one week we will be celebrating our anniversary (2 years) and i want to surprise him, but also being entirely safe. He will be, obviously, using condom, I am beginning to take pills, but what i dont know is when to know about my fertile days? How to make him feel an orgasm? I would like this to be the best gift for both. Greetings and thanks for everything!
2007-04-19 05:00:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Normally, a woman ovulates 14 days before the start of her next period, but since you are on birth control pills then you won't ovulate at all.
2007-04-19 05:05:03 · answer #1 · answered by jilldaniel_wv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your pills EVERY day at the exact same time. If you do this, you won't need to worry about fertile days, because you won't have any. And if it's both your first time, I promise you...he won't have any trouble with orgasm!!! Just make sure you aren't expecting hollywood in your bedroom. It's not really like tv. If you're both truly in love and respectful of each other, then it will be even better, but in a completely different way. Talk about what you both like, too. If he's doing something that doesn't really work for you, tell him. He doesn't want to waste your time & his. By the same token, ask him what he likes. He may not know right away, but you guys will figure it out, and that's half the fun! Don't depend on what strangers think is best, because you're not planning to sleep with any of the people on here!
2007-04-19 16:54:13 · answer #2 · answered by mamaDee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok your using a condom and pills i think your good on the protection front
fertile days i believe are 2 weeks before your period
as for the orgasm dont worry he'll feel it
just a warning though the first time HURTS
2007-04-19 12:07:27 · answer #3 · answered by squeaker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your fertile days are 10-14 days after your period ends, but if your using a condom and pills, then hopefully you should be pretty safe. I'm not gunna go into details on how to make him orgasm, that's something i learned on my own. you learn different things about your man and what drives him crazy, but it takes some time !
2007-04-19 12:06:10 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't u two just go and get married on that anniversary. In that way, U'll be happy having all the orgasms u want and legally too!
Really, I apprecite ur zipping up all these while and just wish the best for you both.
2007-04-19 12:08:21 · answer #5 · answered by sholly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just to let you know, you have to be on the pill for 3 months before they are fully effective. As long as they are taken regularly, you shouldn't have to worry about your fertile days.
2007-04-19 12:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by Trisha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh God.
I'm sorry to hear about the impending end of your relationship. However, if you must, you don't need to know anything other than this--and I just answered another question the same way--you don't need to "do" a thing but lay there! Don't worry, it'll be over soon enough and then you'll have him completely out of your life! Great feeling to be free!!
2007-04-19 12:44:07 · answer #7 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋