why do we make life so hard for our selfs sometimes?

Answer 1

Because if we didn't the human race would die.

We wouldn't bother to get married and have kids!

Answer 2

Human Nature

Answer 3

Sadly, there is a movement in people today to create dramas where they don't need to be. They choose to have issues, as it draws attention to them. No one seems to want to pull themselves up by the bootstraps and get on with life - they prefer to wallow and draw energy and attention from others. Just look at the tv and movies that are most popular...the heroine is a victim of this or that. Fake it until you make it, I say. Put a smile on until it is genuine.

Answer 4

Everything in life has a price to pay for when own it and life is so hard because our pay is low and hardly payrise as much as the price index does.

One product up the price is nothing but when all related products up up the price are a big Shole in our money pocket!. That's our hard shxt life!

Answer 5

We dont make life hard for ourselves. Instead, we always take the decisions that best suit ourselves and are in our interests. But situations and circumstances around us change sometimes that life becomes hard after we took a decision that we believed, would benefit us.

Answer 6

Speaking for yourself. I make life anything but hard for me. Sometimes I get hard but for a different time.

Answer 7

sometimes our self esteem is very low and we believe we should be punished for all the wrongs and/or mistakes we have made in our lives, even if no one else thinks we need punished we then take it upon ourselves to put ourselves down and issue our own punishment. It really isn't that uncommon.

Answer 8

We are all born equal and then it depends on how rich our parents are as to how easy life will be.
A truism is that Life's a ***** and it doesn't get any better (until you focus on what you want in life and make a plan to achieve it)

Answer 9

I am sure no one does this on purpose but life stacks up on use makeing our lives difficult, I also beleive being in the 21st centuary stacked it more not sure why but every thing is so difficult now...all that jobs worth stuff

Answer 10

Selfishness, self-hatred and the impression that we deserve to be punished, and those who engage in self-destructive behaviour. We act like babies sometimes.

Answer 11

I've been asking myself that question for a long time. I've tried to rescue people, as well as animals, but none of the animals have turned on me. I've embraced people who other people warned me to avoid, and they were right. Either I'm a masochist or I have bad karma.