ive seen a lot of people who are very successful in their career. but dont have any good family. and ive seen people are inlove but with no job no career. i just dont wanna miss anything. im saying since im 20 i finish my degree in 23 then ill start dating n thing what do u think ? and WHY ?
2007-04-19 03:51:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i cannot do two things at the same time
2007-04-19 04:30:20 · update #1
Focus on your studies first of all, but remember money isn't everything in life, you need the love and support of a spouse too.
2007-04-19 04:01:20 · answer #1 · answered by If your a bird, I'm a bird.. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its best to have goals and in their right priority. People your age should at all costs finish their education. To do that it helps to keep relationships on a friendly basis....and not get serious until that is done. That doesn't mean you can't have friends and a social life....just try to keep a serious relationship for later.
After education, you have to get started in your career. Love cannot be totally planned...and may come along while you are doing that....if you both think it through, that person will also work with you toward the same goals. Some people get married and work on their goals together....Some hold off until they feel more ready....both will work.
If you get so focused on a career that you think of nothing else, you may miss the right person when they come along.
It is a balance....and keep in mind a couple of things.
Money is not the most important thing...nor is fame...or success. But marrying the right person, a home, and family are more important....and planning for them together.
Marriage, also brings children....planning for them is important.
Keep you goals straight....keep your life balanced....and take your time. There is no hurry to do everything at once...but if it comes into your life, and you recognize that special person....don't throw it away for the wrong reasons. You might regret it. A good relationship means you can work together for mutual goals for your future.
I can tell you from experience that some of these things I learned the hard way....and made a lot of mistakes about a career and setting goals....but I knew what was most important....and because of that, through everything, that family and personal relationship was always the most important thing.....so almost 50 years later I can say....I have always had what was most important...and still do!
2007-04-26 19:00:57 · answer #2 · answered by samantha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Career
2007-04-25 15:35:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chill! Work now, play later. There's no reason you can't "live in the moment", as if you even had a choice. It's always going to be "now" regardless of what you're doing. Planning for the future and working to make it what you want it to be is a very rational thing to do. You sound fairly stressed though so you might want to find some kind of outlet. When I'm stressed I like to exercise - moving around is good for releasing tension and I need all the exercise I can get! Other times just an hour to decompress watching TV or reading a book is enough. You sound very focused and that's good. Just find something to give your mind a break now and then.
2016-03-18 03:51:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a no brainer for me, because no one advised me. Career and Study first. There will be plenty of time for love life after you have some direction in your life. Plus at that point you will be a more desirable person and will probably attract a better class of person.
2007-04-27 01:45:03 · answer #5 · answered by loufedalis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...I think for now you should focus on your career and schooling and then if love happens it happens. Make sure you stay close w/ friends and family..that's most important. One day someones gonna fall into your lap when you least expect it. So try not to rush it. Good luck w/ school and love!
2007-04-27 02:09:39 · answer #6 · answered by Teeny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Career and study. No one should get married under the age of 25, so you can wait and deal with dating after you finish your degree.
2007-04-26 00:36:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to finish your studies for your career. If you don't and can't get a decent
job, then you will find it difficult to support the one you want to marry. I think you
already answered your own question. Good luck!!
2007-04-26 23:50:29 · answer #8 · answered by Garnet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try focusing on the career a little more, only a little. Then don't try to hard with any thing else it will fall into place.
"Well whats to be they say will be." Led Zeppelin, funny how that song was just on.
2007-04-26 22:41:10 · answer #9 · answered by inthrutheoutdoor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Between two stools,we gets none. My boy your question shows that you have deviated from right path. Remember that you may lose ring don't lose finer. Concentrate on studies and don't open this site. Coming events cast their shadow behind. Mind it .
2007-04-27 03:15:04 · answer #10 · answered by baboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋