I'm FTM and I'm attracted to females..Should I look into maybe a bisexual girl?? Although, I gotta admit, I like the "stud" lesbians...they're yummy. But, they generally don't take too kindly to me now that I pass as male.
2007-04-19 02:50:12 · 5 answers · asked by I_color_outside_the_lines 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
every time i run into the girls to boys booth @ gay pride, i always say "have we dated"?
2007-04-19 12:44:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a bisexual girl, I know I'd be open to dating a transperson if I wasn't taken. I'd suggest the "alternative" personals, but some people just have a fetish and won't see past your being FTM. You can use sites like planetout.com and outpersonals.com, too. But the transpeople I know just met someone face to face, had a talk with them, and the other person didn't freak.
2007-04-19 02:58:38 · answer #2 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of sexuality or sexual preferences, I am assuming that what you are really looking for is someone with whom you really fit, and I don't mean anatomically necessarily. I mean someone that is the yang to your ying, that life seems harmonious when you are with that person.
The best way to find such a person is to spend time being where you really REALLY enjoy being, and doing what you really REALLY enjoy doing. I'm not talking about what you are expected to like to be and do. I'm not talking about what is in vogue, in style. I'm talking about from inside yourself, that which the real un peer-pressured, un-"that's cool" you but the real person inside really and truly is most happy when doing and when being there. Because that place, and that activity, is where you will find someone else who has the same genuine substances within herself (or if you change your mind, himself) and that is where you and another will most likely "click".
And no matter what you are, feel, have done, want to do, there is always at least one, and more often very many people who are good for you than you realize. This is especially true if you have spent any time telling yourself that there's no one for you; and even more especially if others have been telling you that you're less than valid for whatever reason they might think they have for saying it. If you have people like that around you, get away from them, I don't care how much they say they love you and are just thinking about what's best for you. Nobody thinks about what's best for you first and foremost. People think about what is best for themselves -- it's not a sin, it's just a survival thing. And people who are always telling you to change or give it up or whatever are doing so because whether or not they realize it, they are trying to protect something in their lives that they don't want changed. They aren't being mean. They may actually think they love you. But "to thine own self be true" is a wonderful rule to follow.
2007-04-19 03:02:41 · answer #3 · answered by hit_monster 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dunno where you are dude, but here in NJ there's a decent sized community of butch-dating-butch lesbians. Try looking for a group like that.
Good luck!
2007-04-19 02:56:53 · answer #4 · answered by Jahn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i had a friend (female) who say's she's gay that found them hot, you'll find someone eventually :)
2007-04-19 03:08:47 · answer #5 · answered by pale_rider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋