2007-04-17 19:22:07 · 13 answers · asked by Samantha 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes. Mostly that's what I believe. And it's hard for me to say that, because I'm going through it right now, and want to believe otherwise. It doesn't matter how long you're with someone. Two weeks or Twenty years; when they cheat all of the trust goes down the drain. When someone cheats it creates friction. Even under the best circumstances, cheating raises concerns such as "did he he/she cheat before?"/"Is this the first time, or just the first time he/she got caught?" And friction is uncomfortable.. and typically sends the cheater back into the arms of whoever they were unfaithful with. Also, cheaters tend to learn from how they were caught the first time and avoid those "mistakes" in the next time around.
Also, I think cheaters LIKE cheating. It seems that the excitement of cheating is too appealing. That they're always willing to risk the aftermath for the instant gratification.
2007-04-17 19:40:58 · answer #1 · answered by Ready2Fly 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
a guy that cheats extremely has a unethical gene geared up into his physique shape. that's extra durable for them to withstand the enticements that are in front of them on the instant. They cheat in view it extremely is how they're made. it is not ok or an excuse to do it. they want lifelong counseling and could continually be cheaters. the topic we've is maximum human beings can not habit a dna attempt on yet another to discover this gene. yet, we can use our straight forward experience while it happens and look at why your guy/woman is doing it.
2016-12-29 06:12:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but this person needs to get the right help. You really have to look at each case separately. Why is a person cheating?
It takes two too tangle and there is always two sided to every story. Care to share yours completely story so I can best answer this question?
2007-04-17 19:37:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe there are"Oops" cheaters like "oops I got drunk on a business trip and had sex with some lady I met in a bar. I feel really guilty and I hope my wife forgives me because I'll never do it again." And ther are serial cheaters like"Wow, I shouldn't be let out of the house alone 'cause I'm gonna find some lady and do the deed."
I think the first might possibly be redeemable but the latter is definitely not!
2007-04-17 19:47:50 · answer #4 · answered by nailgal2005 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Probably. It's a matter of character or the lack of it. If he didn't love you enough not to cheat on you once, what's going to change?
2007-04-17 19:28:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I think that when you find the right one and you know that there going to be the one you are planning on spending the rest of your life there shouldn't be any question about it there isn't know thinking of cheating on the one you are truly meant for.
2007-04-17 19:31:00 · answer #6 · answered by matthew p 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most definitely yes. If you give them another chance you risk having your heart broken again. It can be devastating when you find out that you have been betrayed again. People cheat because they can it is as simple as that.
2007-04-17 19:37:01 · answer #7 · answered by notagain 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't beleive every case is that way...perhaps they are to that person but they can learn to respect others more than they did the one they cheated with.
2007-04-17 19:25:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no
i cheated on my bf cuz i ws in love with someone else
i cheated
conffessed to cheating
broke up with him
and am now happy with the guy i love
been ten months and i would never cheat on my current bf....
2007-04-17 19:33:21 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Phage♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I really don't know. I didn't give my ex husband a second chance to find out if he will change or not. Once was enough for me.
2007-04-17 19:31:13 · answer #10 · answered by Jezebel 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋