2007-04-17 17:34:34 · 9 answers · asked by wils81crue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I live in mi. and want to go to fl. There is no court involved yet. He moved from our bed to hers; now there is another baby on way. We have 2 babies together and they live with me. I let them visit him about 3 days a week over at her house just so they can still see him. It has only been sence Feb. 1st. I want to go soon because it is confusing my kids and we need a new start.
2007-04-17 18:12:14 · update #1
Ahhh...the joys of internet love. As long as there is no binding legal agreement that states otherwise, you can go anywhere the US allows its citizens to go. Don't wait, do it before there is a binding legal agreement.
2007-04-17 17:39:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To live, I don't think so; parental kidnapping will go into play. If you just wanna leave for a second and get situated, then call it a "trip", but you have to come back sooner or later and handle that in court.
2007-04-18 00:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by Answerz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, and yes. If it is part of a regular thing, visiting the grand parents, school events, stuff like that you can( need to let him know when you will return), problems in you marriage doesn't surrender his parental rights. and like it or not. His are equal to yours. Until a judge says other wise.
2007-04-18 00:51:53 · answer #3 · answered by brp_13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the state probably. I did when my daughter was 12 but we didn't stay long. He didn't try to fight it I think he just thought I had the right to. I didn't do it to be cruel. Better check it out first, you can be accused of kidnapping your own kids if you both have equal custody.
2007-04-18 00:40:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the state. if you marry someone or take a better job out of state i was told that you can. as long as its for the better of your family. but with joint custody you usually have to meet half way or bring them to see their other parent and the other parent would have to bring them back to you. but i would call an atty that gives free consults in your area and ask them to be safe. good luck! :)
2007-04-18 00:53:02 · answer #5 · answered by kameo_44 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
moved where? most likely not without his permission. speak to a divorce lawyer in your state first. but i THINK the way it goes.. you can't take the children out of state. would constitute kidnapping. BUT, if he left the state, i THINK you could move then.
BUT, make sure to ask a lawyer! no real lawyer would give you legal advice here so take everything lightly.
2007-04-18 00:40:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anthony Taurus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every state is different.
In California you must 1st give the N/C parent notice of intent to move. If he does not appeal then you are good to go. If he does then you get to go to mediation, if you cannot work it ou there, then you get to go to court.
2007-04-18 01:26:58 · answer #7 · answered by Do or do not, there is no try. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if the courts allow it. If he requests that they do not allow it, many times they won't unless your livelihood depends on it. For visits or vacations, there is usually no problem.
2007-04-18 00:39:37 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No court no problem .He would have to put a missing persons report on you .Your picture may end up on a milk carton
2007-04-18 00:56:48 · answer #9 · answered by dad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋