i have friend problems. [x please help me !?

Question

ok, so i HAD this best friend and we`ve been friends since kindergarden. and last year these girls named sam and dashley came . then last year my best friend started hanging out with her. and then dashley kept taking her away from me and my other friends. and then i got mad. she started talking about me, and i was mad so i talked about her too . but then thats last year. so now with year, sam sat in front of my best friend. so then they started talking a lot and now they`re best friends. and i eve get to talk to my ex-best friend anymore. and it sucks. and she changed too. then in the beginning of the school year , like 2 months after we started dashley starts becoming friends with them , because they had something in common over a guy. [she just wanted to get popular] and now , its alwas the 3 of them together. and then i hung out with them for a little bit like a rebound if you would say . and then my ex- best friend said so you and dashley are cool now right ? and then i said yeah

but then she said yeah too. but then now i`m finding out that she`s been a hypocryte to me. that she really still hates me and that she told her mom and her sister about it too and now they hate me too. she doesnt know i know though. and i work with her at school so its hard. PLEASE HELP ME ! I NEED ADVICE ABOUT WHAT TO DO WITH MY EX BEST FRIEND AND THIS HYPOCRYTE!

Answer 1

bloop bloop. for you answer givers. thats just the begiinnnin of the whole storyy.! they r suck hypocrites. especially dashley..bloop bloop. i hope they dont read this lol.

Answer 2

This may be difficult to hear, but since this has been going on for such a long time, it seems as though your old friends are rather catty. I suggest you look around for some new friends. Try finding new hobbies. I also get the impression that you are from a small town. Do the best you can. And keep your thoughts high. Try listening to the tape, "The Secret" and let it begin helping your mind. I believe in the Lord Jesus Christ and He has helped me. Don't worry, I'm not trying to jam Him down your throat. That is just where I am.

Answer 3

Most of this I didn't even understand..and some of the answeres (What the hell is bloop bloop??) were just odd..anyway, it sounds as though your friend has found a new set of friends that you just don't get along with. Here's what I would do. Let her know that you still love her as a best friend and will always be there for her, but as long as she hangs out with these two girls, you just can't be around her, but if she wants to do something, just the two of you, you'll be around. But don't wait by the phone, and don't worry what other's say about you. It's only school and in a few years, you will all be moved on to college or wherever y'all are goin' when school's done with.

Answer 4

It hurts to lose a friend u have known for so long. I think ur childhood friend was wrong for leaving ur for another, she should have not allowed someone else to come between you and her long term friendship because the two of u were like sisters. She never should have allowed these other girls feelings come before yours. I'm sorry ur ex friend just dropped ur long term friendship to hangout with other just to be popular( by the way if u really think about it she's not really a friend with those girls too because she only wants to hangout to be popular) they will grow tired of each other in the long run because if one becomes more popular then the other then the popular one is not gonna want to hangout with the less popular one and jealousy will kick in they are always compete with each other and they will have bad things to say about each other( watch and see)

U just have to be strong and find new friends who will not leave u like they or she did. If they try to come back to be ur friend again and u let them back into ur life u need tell them how it hurt u and that if they are gonna be ur friend then they better not just drop u when they feel something better is out there and that ur will not put up with been treated like u don't matter. And if they ever do that again then u will not be there for them again if they try to come back.

Answer 5

Just let her go. Find a new best friend. She doesn't sound like shes worth it if shes ignoring you. Even though you probably have a ton of good memories together and its hard to accept the fact that you might not be making any new good memories you need to let go. I know its hard because i have an ex-best friend too and we ended our friendship on bad terms. I can remember a ton of good times with her but thats the past and i have moved on. You need to too. Good Luck

Answer 6

I WON'T SAY YOU SHOULD LET GO i went through same prob and was in the same place as you are right now its just that (my point of view) all person are not of same nature and caring.
now a days people like to show more and do less sINCE she is your such old friend i'm sure THEIR is a understanding between you and her and you feel you don't need to tell things its understood but may be she is too busy with her FRIENDs that her mine is not getting the time to try talking out in person when the attention seeker and all are not around.
to such things i call insecurity as you share all with your friend and she /he turns away.

Answer 7

Sounds like you just have to let go. She has moved on with her life, and if she doesn't want you to be part of it, you will have to let go. I hope it doesn't come to that, but it is sounding like it. Also, don't worry about the drama. You can still be friends with her, just tell her you don't want to be around the other girls because of your differences. If she gets mad over that then I am afraid your friendship will continue to disintegrate. Good luck, and I hope things work out!

Answer 8

You're friend obviously is ignoring you. This is going on in my life also. She is one of those people that need support from someone for so long and feed off others when you're drained. Find new friends! It's a new year, start over. If she doesn't want ot be your friend don't chase her around about it. Be wise and wait until she comes back...THEN REJECT HER ***! Oops! I mean, be friends again...

Answer 9

THAT'S RIGHT EX-BEST FRIEND. THAT'S ALL
U NEED TO DO. LET HER GO ON HER BAD ***
WAY. SHE WILL ONE DAY REMEMBER WHAT
A GOOD FRIEND SHE USTO HAVE. AND FOR
THE FAMILY AND HER HATING U ........ THERE
WILL ALWAYS BE HATERS NO MATTER WHAT.
U GO ON AND FIND A REAL FRIEND OUT THERE
SOMEWHERES. THERE IS A GOOD FRIEND FOR
EVERYONE OUT THERE......... U JUST HAVE TO
LOOK AND U WILL FIND.,.................

Answer 10

I guess start to move on in your life. True friends will always be with you no matter what difficulty ahead. I guess this Friend of yours is not realy your friends. So, my friend its time to move on.