I found out my boyfriend has posted a personal ad~What should I do?

Question

He is keeping it a secret from me. I found it in the dropdown address bar on the browser :( What should I do? What would you do?

Answer 1

Kick him to the curb, now.
Don't let men use and abuse you like that - he's a cheater and disrespectful. Plus, he's pretty stupid. You can do better, get him gone. Play a little Beyonce while you send him packing. Maybe Blu Cantrell's "Hit 'Em Up Style."
Good luck!

Answer 2

Just because it is on the dropdown bar doesn't mean he has a profile. Don't jump to conclusions, even though it is hard not to. Check your cookies and history - see if he has actually gone through the site looking at profiles. Could he have accidentally clicked on something? Those True ads are everywhere! Go to the site and click on the box where he would type in his screen name - and press the down arrow key on your keyboard. Hopefully, it will show a list of usernames that have been used to log on. After that, you can search for that name if it comes up.
Don't be shady and try to catch him doing something you don't agree with - you can end up looking silly.

Answer 3

Answering the advert is a robust theory. Then ask him if he has a female pal. Make something up like, "an excellent form of fellows right here have lied in the previous approximately having a female pal. Do you?" Then see what he says approximately you. If he tells the actuality (that he does have a female pal), ask in a diffused way why he's straying. He might properly be extra open with a stranger on line than in case you confronted him in person.

Answer 4

Haha I go with the first answerer that is so good! trick him definitely respond! I know it feels sad and horrible but you deserve better and if he and how responds can be good amo when he says "I was just kidding around I was bored I wanted to see if anyone would respond, It wasn't serious honest" The best thing to do is hit him hard and fast! Best bait is quick s*x, so be open and while still in character dump him and say love from (your name) shock therapy

Answer 5

Confront him if it was in th e PC History its not like if u were snooping , I would totally first tell him to go over to the computer and then show it to him and then let it rip. I'm a very jealous girlfriend and if anything is one my mind I let him know I never want to live off the regrets!

Answer 6

I would confront him about it, show him where you found it, and leave him. And he is going to deny it. They ALL do. Some people said to make a fake account and contact him. I think that would also be a good idea. Then you absolutely have proof to leave him. But don't let him find it like you found his.

Answer 7

I would create an account at the same site and mess with him. Then when he wants to meet you show up wearing a sign that says it's over and never speak to him again.

Answer 8

make another email address and answer his ad!...
keep it a secret from him as well.
be naughty when he answers back.
have an online affair with him.
and when it gets really good ask to meet with him.
and then....(or somewhere in between all of the above)
ask him, in a non-threatening way, "hey, what do you think about online ads?... o_O.
then depending on his answer & re-action. it's your call. =)

Answer 9

First I am w/the answering the ad. Then go the whole nine yards and get a date w/him, dress in a wig and heavy make-up until he sees it is you and dump him like you never dumped a dude in your life. hell, date his best friend. lol.

Answer 10

Confront him. Talk to him and see if he's willing to earn your trust back. If you've been with him awhile, I wouldn't be so hasty to break up with him. I don't know who he is or what his reasons are, but some people you love and who love you deserve a second chance.