I look like a cross between Brad Pitt and Leonardo di Caprio. No matter where I go women stare, and some slip me their phone number. How can a guy politely indicate that he's not interested, without causing damage to the self-image of these beautiful girls? Why can't women control themselves anymore?
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2007-04-17 13:10:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
can i have your number? lol
2007-04-17 13:19:35 · answer #1 · answered by hope 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just smile benignly when they show interest and then go on with whatever you were doing. Being polite and pleasant without being encouraging, I think is the best way. You can't stop them from fantasizing, but by being a gentleman you won't hurt their self-image. It's analogous to good sportsmanship, not lording it over the other person if you beat them and not showing hurt or anger if they beat you. It's like the difference between how a real lady turns you down and when some female tells you to get lost or tries to avoid you like the plague. It's an art. Above all, don't act as if you are above them; that just invites more annoying behavior. As for staring, just ignore it - it's not hurting you.
2007-04-17 20:26:25 · answer #2 · answered by xxxx 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh boy look at you complaining, well best enjoy it now b4 the thrill is gone. What do you mean SOME slip you there phone numbers, why that's criminal. Just criminal. As for the other problem I guess your on your own, having exceptionally good looks can be a burden at times.
2007-04-17 20:20:45 · answer #3 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hot guys are few and far between. When women see a hot guy, it's an EVENT.
Just flatter them... say something like, "I have a girlfriend, but you kinda make me wish I didn't" or something cheezy like that, then you won't damage their self esteem.
2007-04-17 20:18:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get a friend to beat the living crap out of you, and don't bother trying to heal the bruises or the missing teeth. Works every time.
2007-04-17 20:13:33 · answer #5 · answered by Rio Madeira 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hey man I'm the same way,Ive learned to just not pay any attention to them.Look at them like their retarted if they keep bugging you.Have one of your chick FRIENDS,just friends to hang with you.Most will leave you alone.
2007-04-17 20:22:24 · answer #6 · answered by jeffy9009 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wear a huge wedding band and pretend to talk about a wife that doen't exist.
2007-04-17 22:56:18 · answer #7 · answered by HA! HA! HA! 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Enjoy your good looks!! Trust me....they WILL fade. You'll look back on these days (and you will!) and say, I wish I had enjoyed those days when....
It is best to cultivate interest, grow the mind, reading, etc. Looks are sooo temporary!
Be kind, but say "No thanks" I'm taken...sorry.
2007-04-17 20:27:03 · answer #8 · answered by Eve 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get real fat,don't bathe for days and act weird.
2007-04-17 20:13:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If that's the WORST problem you have no problems to speak of.
And are you bragging or complaining?
2007-04-17 23:22:08 · answer #10 · answered by nowyouknow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let them talk to you for a minute...they will realize how full of yourself you are and trust me they will never look at you twice.....wether your handsome or not your an idiot!
2007-04-17 22:21:42 · answer #11 · answered by Ria B 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋