Im still really scared?

Question

I know i have already posted this question but today i realised that my breasts are no longer sore!!! Tey have absolutly killing me and now all of a sudden they dont hurt any more! I was still a little bit queezy this morning but nothin i cant handle. I am really really scared and dont know what to do. I cant just take a bath or ne thing like that because i am at work at the moment. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!
I am almost 3 months and tomorrow i go for my first scan. I am really worried that they wont be able to find a heartbeat or something like that. Some days i feel pregnant but others i dont at all! I thought my morning sickness was gone but this morning it came back! I was sort of glad for it but im still really really scared. Tell me how did you first feel about your first scan and what happened? This is my first pregnancy that has lasted this long so i know i am worrying more than usual.

No need for smart comments thanks.

Answer 1

what your feeling is perfectly normal.
i remember being scared like yourself before my first scan its because you cant feel the baby so you have no idea whats happening in there.
instead of being scared of the scan look forwards to seeing your baby as soon as you see it jumping around on the screen you'll wonder what all the worry was about.
it gets a lot less stress full when you start feeling the baby move as then you know its all OK.
when your worried you mind plays tricks on you and you'll notice things and convince yourself there a bad sign this is normal your only human but try not to look to much into things every ones body's act differently with pregnancy.
every is going to be fine now chill out and instead of worry which is no good for you or baby start looking in magazines and websites at whats happening with you baby this week and how big it is this will get you so excited.
good luck let us know how your scan goes.

Answer 2

This is what I did too. There were days I would wake up at the beginning of the pregnancy--I am now 36 weeks and 5 days--and forget I was pregnant. Then there were days that I couldnt have forgotten if I tried cause I was sick. I was scared the first time we went for the sonogram but I was also excited. Have you got to hear the heartbeat at the visits so far. I am sure that things will go great. You have good days and not so good days the first trimester. Keep us posted. I can understand why you are worrying.

Answer 3

Try not to stress, it doesn't help anything! Some women don't even have symptoms when they're pregnant. I'm sure you're fine. Don't worry about something that may not even exist! Wait until your checkup and go from there. In the meantime, think about all the wonderful things that can happen and maybe find a way to relax yourself. Take a few relaxation breaths and tell yourself, "It's okay!" Everything will be ok!!!! Good luck sweetie, you'll get through this!!!

Answer 4

I'm right at five months, and I never had one single bit of morning sickness. This is also my first pregnancy so I was worried constantly that something was wrong. This past Monday I went in to another OBGYN appointment, and asked the doctor why I just don't feel pregnant. He said that's actually really good because who wants to feel horrible during this exciting time?? My first appointment they found the sac (I was only 4 weeks along!) and at 8 weeks they found the heartbeat. =) Hearing it for the first time is unbelievable...This huge smile crept on my face and I let out a loud sigh of relief that everything is okay! Good luck!

Answer 5

It's ok! Sometimes symptoms come and go. Don't worry! Worrying is not good for you, or the baby.

I didn't have any symptoms my first pregnancy, or at least none that were severe enough for me to notice them. I didn't even know I was pregnant until a doctor found the fetus on an MRI (like an x-ray)!

This time, I have noticed some nausea, but nothing much other than that! Not everyone has symptoms!

Hang in there. Good luck!

Answer 6

Just calm down. You feeling this way is going to stress the baby out!! You already 3 months pregnant which means that the bad part of pregnancy could be passing already. If you're really that worried call your doctor or go to the ER so they can check the heartbeat. I'm sure everything is fine though. Don't worry!

Answer 7

Welcome to the joy of motherhood! I go through the same thing (I am about 4 months) some mornings I am sick as a dog and can barely get outta bed! And others I could do a back bend and feel great! I know how you feel about not hearing the heartbeat. I thought the same thing as you. But there was a heartbeat and we had an ultra sound as well and saw our little one.If you haven't had an ultra sound then you should have one when you go to the doctor. Share your fears with your hubby/boyfriend, it will help. Congrats!

Answer 8

I'm only 7 weeks and I'm scared to death. i am constantly worrying about losing this baby. this is my first pregnancy and all the women in my family have miscarried in there first pregnancy.

don't worry i think everything is going to be okay for you. the odds are on your side. i have always heard that after the 12th week the odds of losing a baby drop dramatically. your close to entering your second trimester and its completely normal for morning sickens to go away along with some other pregnancy symptoms. i know how scared you are. i also know that there is not much you can do or anyone can say that is going to calm your fears.

Answer 9

Good luck with this pregnancy. You should be fine. The worry will hurt you more than anything. Talk to people who can make you feel better about things. At three months, many of the major symptoms, including breast pain, go away. It's dubbed "the honeymoon trimester." Try to enjoy this time. Good Luck!

Answer 10

Its OK. I remember when I was pregnant and there were days in the 1st trimester where I didn't feel pregnant at all. Most of the time I was sick as a dog, so when I felt normal I was sure something was wrong. Please don't worry. Its had to say that, but its true- what you feel is totally normal. It'll be ok.