Hi, I have probably just had the millionth fight with my boyfriend, and we are both in the stage that we are really mad at each other. I am usually the one who gives in and takes him back. But this time i CANT, he is abusive, and this relationship is very unhealthy for me. Please tell me what I can do to not take him back, or rather want to take him back. Please help me, I really cannot go back this time, even though a little part of me wants to
2007-04-17 11:40:44 · 4 answers · asked by sagin123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Finish EVRY thought of him with "BUT HE'S ABUSIVE! You said it right there.It doesn't sound like he's gonna change and if he loves you he will seek help from hurting you.Suggeset this to him and wait and see fi he does it. If he doesn't MOVE ON! But don't stay in an unhealthy relationship.
2007-04-17 11:45:03 · answer #1 · answered by Brandy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you are worth more than this!! You deserve a relationship that is NOT abusive!! Don't take this guy back.....the abuse will only get worse and you could end up in the hospital next time....or worse!! You state that the relationship is unhealthy.....follow your instincts and tell this guy to hit the road. There is a fellow out there just waiting to love you and treat you like you want. Stop the abuse now before it's too late!!!
2007-04-17 18:50:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know this isn't good for you so that is the biggest issue. Don't take his calls, don't read his text messages, don't meet him, or see him at all. He is bad for you and there are plenty of good guys out there that would love to have a wonderful girl like you. You don't need to settle for this loser.
2007-04-17 18:44:33 · answer #3 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new boyfriend .
2007-04-17 18:44:44 · answer #4 · answered by gone fishing! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋