what would you do if you found a letter that included that you spouse was chatting but it wasnt in your spouse hand writing.You found it in the trash it said your spouses name and the opposite sex name saying that your spouse will love them forever.Your spouse says that they had nothing to do about it and their friend was joking and wrote that.Just what will you do and say?
2007-04-17 11:22:02 · 6 answers · asked by tweet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go ask the friend, that supposedly wrote it.
2007-04-17 11:25:34 · answer #1 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask which friend did it as a joke, get him over (or on the phone) to confront him with out giving hubby enough time to warn him of your call. If your hubby was lying he will either say "wait, let's not call" so you can say "how else can you prove your innocence?" or he'll come out with the truth.
If it was true, inform the friend that there are other options of joking around with a husband and wife in humorous ways besides instigating what could be the beginning of a falling out of a relationship. If the friend does it to cover up for your hubby, he will sure feel embarrassed and will not want to be in the path of your wrath again.
If it is not true, confront the husband. If he denies, let it pass but be on the lookout. This small thing could be something bigger but it is too menial to have the "heart to heart" about trust, love and etc. etc. with him yet.
2007-04-17 18:32:43 · answer #2 · answered by Georgina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay cool and call and talk to the other person and ask them what's going on. Be careful it can be tricky, if u real love him. But, u can also feel better to know the truth. Theses kind of thoughts are not healthy for u to have of your partner.
2007-04-17 18:55:22 · answer #3 · answered by melly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the friend. And make sure it was not in your spouse's handwriting.
2007-04-17 18:27:51 · answer #4 · answered by Big Super 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask. It will save a lot of time and heartache!
2007-04-17 18:32:28 · answer #5 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would investigate the situation. It sounds suspicious.
2007-04-17 18:29:21 · answer #6 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋