Is it polite for your friends to discuss your relationship with your husband without you being present? should' nt your friends respect your privacy or at least talk to you first since you are their friend not your husband.
2007-04-17 11:17:04 · 5 answers · asked by jinky l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Respect is what you get after you lay the smack down on someone.
Concern is when your friends pick you up from a pool of your own blood and say..."Man, are you alright?"
2007-04-17 11:20:58 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Ed 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whenever a friend of yours is concerned about you, they should ALWAYS approach YOU first. That is RESPECT. Going to a friends partner BEFORE discussing it with the friend is not a smart thing to do at all. If my friend did that to me, I would invite her over with my husband there too, and lay it all on the table - no secrets, no behind my back crap - OK, if you are so concerned, tell me. After all is said, I would make sure they BOTH understand that I do not tolerate disrespect - from EITHER of them!!
2007-04-17 19:35:16 · answer #2 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree. Concern is doing waht your friends did. going behind your back to "take care" of a problem they dont really ahve a say in. If they were respectful theyd help you in other ways, while still keeping in mind privacy issues as well and repect for your relationship. YOUre the one in the relationship not them tell them they need to back off if they still want relationship with you.
2007-04-17 18:20:33 · answer #3 · answered by Sam <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's face it, friends or not we talk about each other. It's human nature.
2007-04-17 18:20:42 · answer #4 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not polite for your friend to go to your hubby and talk about your and his relationship.........they sould of came to you first on the subject.....your friend sould respeact your privacy......your friend must of been worred about or concerned about the relationship if they were they wouldnt of gone to you hubby first if they are your friends they sould of came to you first..........i think your friends ether have feelings for your hubby.......try to get him out of the relationship that why they didnt come to you first they didnt want u to hear what they were saying.........do you or hubby have msn or your friends i can help you find out what going on........
2007-04-17 18:26:58 · answer #5 · answered by badgirlforlife007 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋