i just moved to a new school...and in my english class i know nobody at all too well...and theres this girl in front me...she talks to me alot...but when we meet outside of class she doesn't talk to me at all....the prlbem is....i have difficulty talking to her...i dunt know why....i have difficulty talking to pretty much everyone in that class...i can't express myself...and i just feel held back....argh..wats happening tome?...i had this prblem ever since i moved to a catholic school....but now im back in public school...so i knwo only a few ppl in the public...help
2007-04-17 10:47:20 · 17 answers · asked by no name 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I was shy when I was in school, many years ago. Who says you have to talk? Ask her questions, and let her do the talking...this advice will last you a long time, my friend.
2007-04-17 10:50:49 · answer #1 · answered by drgolfmd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it so much, focus on your studies. I know it seems like the most important thing to you right now, but it's not, trust me I felt the same way when I was younger. It's distracting you from your school work. If you don't pay attention, and do well in school you willregret it when you are older. Someone you want as a good friend would never ignore you. Don't worry, you'll find good friends. You won't even b thinking about it and it will just happen. At lunch time maybe try siting with a few new people and asking them what they do for fun on the weekends. Next thing ya know they could b ur best buddies.
2007-04-17 17:58:17 · answer #2 · answered by BarbieD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have this problem EVERYtime i try to talk to this one girl, I don't know why because she's popular, but so am I.
I would say that you are just nervous because maybe she's very liked. Just keep calm. Pretend you're talking to one of your old friends. Just let yourself go. Because she's not going to freak out when you talk back. That's probably the reason she doent talk to you outside of class, because you never talk to her. So be yourself, and speak up! Soon, it'll be a breeze.
2007-04-17 17:55:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have only a ? if u talk to her whats the worst thing that could happen? trust me u woulnt fall down and die! ur in high school right ? well i am in college right now and i wish i could go back to high school to face my fears to talk to the guys or take chances! u should ask her to study for the next up coming test to study together. just lay back girls can tell that ur nervouse trust me they like a guy who looks like nothing can bother him !!! u will be fine!! just remmber live life and dont have any regrets !!! take care and i wanna knw how it worked out
2007-04-17 17:57:37 · answer #4 · answered by irina b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will pass, give it time, mean while smile, crack jokes, eat fritos and pass them out to cute girls. Careful with the Nuns though they used to whap your knuckles with a stick! Not me of course but certain nut cases got it. Think of people walking around in their underwear/ youll laugh and not be so serious. This is the time in your life for the good stuff, you haven't a care in the world!
2007-04-17 17:56:12 · answer #5 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she doesn't know what to say to you outside of class, or thinks you aren't interested in her because you don't make an effort to talk to her outside of class. a simple wave and hello will go along way. and it never hurts to actually tell people "gah I dont know what to say, I'm so shy here!" most people are very sympathetic to new comers.
2007-04-17 17:52:04 · answer #6 · answered by LuvUrGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to her in ur english class and bring up the situation between the two of you and express how u feel.
2007-04-17 17:53:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the crowd. There's not as many friends of hers that know you OUTSIDE of class, as opposed to inside. Get to know the friends, and worm your way in.
2007-04-17 17:55:04 · answer #8 · answered by Stan Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happened when i moved here dont try to fit in whith those people that dont have the same interest as u .......just be urself dont be shy.....express ur self i know it sounds really hard but its really ,not just put urself out there .......u know it doesnt have to be people from ur eng. class choose other classes to .......hope that helps
2007-04-17 17:53:41 · answer #9 · answered by ɱýšƗȉɋǔȇ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probualy feel like that because your shy and maybe afraid of expressing yourself because you dont know what they will think of you.
WOW!
I just sounded very logical :)
YAY!!!
2007-04-17 20:41:57 · answer #10 · answered by BRIT™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋