Should i believe her this time?

Question

Ok we have been together for 6 years and a few months. Along the way i had a few poblems i hook up with a few other girls and broke up with her a few times. Eversince last Feb. of 2006 we were great. Then in aug i went back to college for my last year. We weren't getting along so she asked for a break we took it then broke up with me. She said shes not happy and doesn't know why but want to break up. We've been broken up since Januarary but we talked like we were together and hung out sparatacly.

I went to spring break and when i got back i found out she was seeing someone. I questioned her she cried and said it was nothing and she regreted it.

Then she said when shools over and you come back i want to go back out and then get engaged and married. I asked her if ou werent happy what makes you think you will be. She sadi i realized i belong with you and i want to get back together

She sounds sincere but i dont know if i believe her.. What do you think?

She calls me and texts me all day. She seems like she really wants to be together again but i don't want to get my hopes up. What are some signs i should look for that show she doesn't want to be together anymore?

Answer 1

ITS ALL ABOUT TRUST. I WOULDN'T TRUST HER AGAIN. YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE THAT IN THE BACK OF YOUR HEAD OF WHAT SHE DID AND YOU WILL ALWAYS WONDER. I WOULDN'T GET BACK WITH HER. MOVE ON AND FIND A WOMAN THAT YOU WILL TRULY BE HAPPY WITH AND TRUST.

Answer 2

Sounds like neither of you are ready to settle down, certainly not with each other. You both seem more interested in personal satisfaction and not the common good for the both of you. I don't see either one of you ready to make a commitment to each other.

Answer 3

She doesn't know what she wants. She is testing the market. Marriage not a good idea. Doubts will cast over you and her's relationship. Let it go