how do u feel about wearing your wedding band/ring?

Question

i personally wear mines and so does my hubby , but sometimes i see ppl i know that are married and they have no ring on. what do u think ?

Answer 1

my husband and i wear our rings but there are times that he or me forget to wear it
it doesn't bother us.
for us it's just a ring a symbol of marriage
the important thing is we are married
and we love each other.
even without rings our hearts are bind together.

Answer 2

I think it all depends on who you are and what you do! I love wearing mine, and I will only be married a year this May. But.. I have also broke my engagement ring and wedding ring and had to switch to a band! Some people are just naturally harder on theres. My husband is in construction and so he can't really wear his during the job. And his hands kept getting swollen so he's kept it off. But anytime someone asks, or even trys to flirt he tells them he is VERY happily married to me.

Answer 3

I was married for 15 years and never wore my wedding band. I just found it annoying. I don't even wear a watch for same reason. However, my fiancee has made it very clear that when we marry, there will be a ring on my finger. So, I guess I better learn to live with it.

Answer 4

Depends on the reason. I know a few couples who do not wear them because they don't think they need them to feel married. Most of these couples are professors and in fact, many academics I know do not feel the need to wear them. If they are taking them off to get other people, then that is bad. But if it is an understanding between the couple and they are not flirting outside the marriage, then I would say it is okay.

Answer 5

My husband and I try to wear our rings. However, when he is working I don't want him wearing his. He nearly lost his finger because he had his band on at work. I recently got my band re-sized so it will fit properly. When it was too large I didn't like wearing it for fear that it would fall off. His not having a band on doesn't bother me much because I trust he's not trying to look single. (besides, he has the tan line and indent on his finger) It's when someone is trying to misleed others into a concept of availibility that I have a problem with.

Answer 6

I guess I'm one of those people,that do not wear wedding ring. I used to for 10years but my ex become unfaithful and my job is a bit different. We are not allowed to wear jewelry,only a watch for some safety regulation. And yes there's a lot of married people that do not wear their wedding band, it's one of those style that we followed.....

Answer 7

I wear mines all the time and it has gotten to the point that I don't even notice it's there. My hubby takes his off when he works and puts it right back on after.

Answer 8

I don't think about it. I wear mine, but occasionally I may forget to put it back on after washing or lotion my hands. Just because I don't wear a ring that day doesn't mean I'm not married.

Answer 9

My hubby rarely wears his but he is a mechanic and it is unsafe most of the time. He makes sure when we go out or he is out (other than work) he wears it though. But fact of the matter is that I am secure in enough in our relationship that if he did not wear it there would not be an issue.

Answer 10

I don't wear one normally. I know I'm married and I don't give a rat's as5 what the rest of the world thinks.... My wife is OK with it reasoning correctly that if I was inclined to cheat, a wedding band wouldn't stop me. BTW I don't wear any jewelry except a watch.