Wife said my "private" is too small!?

Question

In a recent fight with my wife, she was very mad, and told me that my pen*s was too small for her.

Ouch. I know she was mad and trying to hurt me, but ouch.

she said sorry, but I think she really means it.

What should I do to get over this?

Unfortunately, it hurt so much b/c it is true.

I am on the small side.

Answer 1

Just tell her it's not that you're too small, it's that she's so wide and stretched out!

Give as good as you get...

Answer 2

Wow. That hurts! Try to resolve the other fight first before gathering up the strength to resolve this issue.
Sometimes when people fight they may say things that they don't mean, but sometimes they do mean it.
It's a difficult topic to discuss, but I think you need to talk to her about it. Has she ever shown signs that she has not been pleasured by your lovemaking? Has she made any comment in the past to question your skills? If the answer is no then she may not have meant her hurtful outburst.
If she didn't think that you satisfied her, then why get married in the first place?
Worse case scenario, if she really did mean it, you can go together to a sex store and find something that she may like. It shows her that you love her and want her to be happy. Some things are out of our control. Be happy with what you were born with. Don't let your ego drop over someone's opinion.
Good luck to you.

Answer 3

Well, when you both calm down, you need to talk to her.
Women should know its a cardnial rule to NEVER make fun of a guys equipment whether its 5", 6" 8" or 10".
Do you think yours is?
Does it matter?
Does she compare you to her previous lovers?
But its not necesarily what size you have is how you use it!!
With no disrepect, do you bring her to orgasim half the time, most of the time or not at all?
Is she satisfied with both of your sex life. That you need to find out.
I know, smaller male members feel very inadequate so I understand you there. But, she wasn't cool about that.

There is a web site you should know you should really review it but don't feel bad. If she is likes more girth, you might need an extender or some big toys if she wants. I hope she takes care or you as well This site might make you feel bad, but its the truth and she must accept you as you are. You would't demand her to get breast enlargement or a vaginal reconstruction to make it tighter right? Good Luck and communicate with her!

Answer 4

Mine did the same. Screamed at me I have a small cock in a fight and had in the past said the best sex was with a huge guy. I am a short guy 5 5" and my dick is proportionate 5.5/5
Go on Ashley Madison. I did and found out that maybe one out of 20 women were looking for a large penis.
The rest were looking for a guy to desire them and want them. Dick size never comes up.
Besides the biggest dick they are getting now is mine, so if the guy before was bigger, obvioulsy that isn t helping him because I am the one doing her right now and that s all that matters.
Make them *** with your tongue, use two fingers and find the g-spot and get in shape so you can hold yourself over her and put lots of upward pressure from your shaft on her clit as you slide in.
Now my wife would likely say I am the best because after 6 women on AM (each would marry me by the way because I treat them better than their dick head husbands (two of whom are big and too big).
Turns out the big guys have a hard time getting real hard and real hard is a sign to them the guy is really into them which gets them hotter.
My wife cheated looking for a big one and never got it (height and hands are not true indicators).
But that has allowed me to cheat (safely) with no guilt and it s been win win.
Mind you I am sort of in love with one and pretty much in a long term with two others now so it is a bit complicated. But all are married and no one wants to leave so all is good.
Karma i guess.

Answer 5

Personally, I think that your wife has traumatized you for life. If this is the way she feels, you will never have the same intimate feelings towards her because the thaught of her dis-satisfaction with your "size" will always be in the back of your mind. No matter how much you will try to forget about the incident. What I suggest doing is seeking a new, more enjoyable way to satisfy her, be creative and don't let her see that her comment had bothered you at all.

Answer 6

Yes, she does mean it. Sometimes a hidden truth will come out in the heat of an argument. It's usually something negative about the other person, but you don't tell them because you know it will hurt them. That goes out the window when you get in a heated argument. Guess you can buy her some large realisitic dildos. If you don't, she might start getting the real thing before long.

Answer 7

"My ex was far larger than you" or "you have a small penis" is in some respects the ultimate Doomsday weapon in a woman's arsenal. She is really attempting to hurt you emotionally and gain the psychological upper hand in the argument.

Assuming you are not a phallic Lilliputian or into one of those strange small penis humiliation fetishes (which I can't understand) you both have to move on and solve the real reason for her outburst: communication or another problem with the relationship.

Answer 8

That is harsh brother! The best thing to do is get a new chick. You are going to spend the rest of your life questioning your manhood when you are with her. Before you leave though nail it the best you ever have but definently leave. On the way out the door let her know that it's not that your junk is too small, it's her chamber that's too destroyed.

Answer 9

First of all, if you have no problem airing your "small private" business to ALL OF THE WORLD on yahoo, then you should have no problem gettin' over what your wife said. Second, I hate to tell you...but there's always truth in jest and you're wife? She wasn't kidding. That's how we let things of our chest that pertain to our sex life (expecially when we're married). First we say something to hurt u (that's 95% of the time-honest) and then we say we didn't mean it, to obviously let you have some of your manhood back. Sorry but thats just how we work. It's not like guys never think to themselves "gee I wish her boobs were bigger" or "smaller butt" or "hotter face or body"

Answer 10

She was just mad...no excuse, but she didn't mean it. Unless she complains when you are rocking her world, then it was just something spiteful to say. Next time you get into a fight, throw it back at her and tell her you have never had complaints before so maybe she is just too loose. See how she likes her own medicine.

Answer 11

if she said she's sorry than believe her his still with you you would see it in her eyes if she lying and she wouldn't be with you if she didn't men and women always say things to hurt one another when there mad which is ash-am that everyone is cut throat hope you find a way of forgiving her. I'm sure you've had pissed her off somewhere along the line