I'm going through that now, because she isn't as sincere as she used to be and I don't feel comfortable with some of our conversations.
So how do you go about ending a friendship?
2007-04-17 08:28:13 · 31 answers · asked by DrPepper 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Just let the friendship drift, that way if you miss the person, you can always call and see what's up? See, this kind of thing happened to me. I had a friend that was just very annoying. I love her but I couldn't spend too much time with her. Same for her with me. We were always there for each other but couln't take too much of each other. Ikept avoiding her and she finally stopped coming by and calling and then I felt horrible and when I got married I invited her and I called her after I had the baby. Now I miss her alot of the time. When I do call, we don't really get together but we just chat! All I'm saying is to make sure that is what you really want.
2007-04-17 08:38:40 · answer #1 · answered by Crash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same thing happen. I just stopped calling and making time to spend together. She got the hint and quit the friendship too. When I run into her she asks if we can go do something together and I say OK but don't call her back. I don't ever want to create a scene or make her feel bad. It is time to move on. She is the one who made the decision to not share some personal decisions with me and it hurt me and worried me a lot. I think she needs a different kind of friend than me. Best of luck to you !
2007-04-17 08:34:51 · answer #2 · answered by whrldpz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yes i ended 1 friendship right b4 i gradutaed high school and 1 right after graduation cause people do change and i was working full time and she was going to school and working and the other one did something not so nice it sucks and now i look back and wish things could have been different i still talk to one of them once in a while but sometimes u just gotta let go and move on u dont have time to waste on people that are rude mean or cruel to u life is too short!!!!!!!
2007-04-17 08:33:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I asked this question some weeks in the past and it variety of feels like maximum folk think of it relies upon on their motives for no longer needing you to cling around this chum and how serious that's with the couple. in my opinion i do no longer have confidence in those "terrific acquaintances" of the alternative intercourse. If there is even an ounce. of charm, all it will ever take for some thing to ensue is a few beverages, a vulnerable 2nd on your romantic relationship, a lonely evening...and growth. while cheating happens and somebody has "that chum", that's constantly who they cheat with. i think of human beings purely ought to choose who's extra significant to them. EDIT: Sam, all people who thinks they are a hundred% resistant to temptation is a fool and having the alternative intercourse terrific acquaintances are pointless temptations. yet hi, once you are the single individual in the international who's appropriate... and that i think of that's hilarious the way you call it "self restraint" once you communicate approximately somebody you haven't any longer any romantic activity in. Why are you having to restrain your self if there is not any charm?
2016-12-10 04:35:37 · answer #4 · answered by galle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I treat it the same way as I would if breaking up with a boyfriend. You tell the person you honestly don't feel like you can be their friend anymore and give them real reasons why. Be kind about it. They will probably get upset but hopefully have learned something in the process.
2007-04-17 08:33:08 · answer #5 · answered by Jadis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That has happened to me many times. People change. I just dont call, make excuses etc! At some point they will get the hint and go away! Good luck. Been there done that. (be careful tho, sometimes I feel like I have no friends, and its kinda lonley sometime)
2007-04-17 08:36:03 · answer #6 · answered by BOOTS! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I stopped taking my friends phone calls-we were friends for 8 years-she started lying to me & I was her best friend -and if you have to lie to your closest friend...you have issues and you are just fake..so I just gave her the cold shoulder until she finally got the not so subtle hint. And of course she lied to her family about why we were no longer friends. But oh well dont know her anymore, but I hear she continues to be a liar with her close family & friends..
2007-04-17 08:37:31 · answer #7 · answered by fab1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through that a few years ago. I couldn't stand her gossiping constantly so I just phased her out over two weeks. Haven't talked to her since. Feels GOOOD!
2007-04-17 08:31:44 · answer #8 · answered by Kris B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, but I am considering ending a friendship myself. I am hoping we slowly grow apart because I don't want to hurt her. Being her friend is more stressful than it is enjoyable.
2007-04-17 08:32:47 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. Worm is back 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have felt like that.I'm a little slow to realize sometimes that some of my "friends" don't really care about me just what they can get from or out of me.
2007-04-17 08:35:38 · answer #10 · answered by J♥R♥R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋