Does your spouse spend a butt load of money?

Question

This weekend my husband and I went and did diffrent things. He went to his friends house and I went shopping wiht my sister. Before we went our own ways he withdrew $100. The next morning he told me he spent $200 on speakers for his car. Then that night i looked in our check book to see our balance and found that the same night he withdrew $100 more dollars, he spent $400 this weekend on crap. while I was shopping I spent $40. I couldnt say anything to him because I was so pissed. How would you have handled this?

Answer 1

I don't tolerate lieing, so not very well.... you did better then me. I don't like that immature game, shoot a person could get away with that with me, as long as their honest about it(the money). I'd be to insecure about if he feels that he needs to lie to me about other things just to tolerate my more mature butt..... not fair, not right, and you don't need to tolerate this type of bs. I mean if money is something he can mess around with behind your back, whats next? And does he got the opioion that he knows better then you, how to spend that money? Do you guys have kids? Because that would of really erk'd me.... But I mean if you guys are rich and can afford stuff like this, then yea maybe you should just relax.... but something tells me thats not the way it is....