how do i get out of this?

Question

So my sister-in-law was over at our house last weekend. I had a late night the night before and was trying to take a nap. Well, she came into the room and got in bed with me...one thing led to another and we had a little too much fun (again). I have a hard time turning her down...she does a lot of things her sister (my wife) wouldn't even dream of doing. We almost got caught this time. I'm thinking maybe I should maybe stop this whole thing but I'm a little worried my sis-in-law might get mad. How can I end it with her and not have the rest of the family find out? Or am I better off now just sticking to the program and sleeping with her to keep her happy?

Answer 1

Never ever ever be alone with her, and have nearly nothing to say to her. if she starts spilling the beans, deny that she's telling the truth.

Answer 2

Wow, you're really pretty much screwed. You deserve an award for outrageously bad judgement and behavior. All I could think while reading your question was "Please God let this be a prank question by some adolescent and not a real situation." Still, miracles do happen and I guess it does nothing to help by telling you how awful your actions have been here.

Have a quiet talk with the sis-in-law stressing that you love your wife and she should love her sister and the two of you have to stop doing this because it is an active betrayal.

Try to get a read on why the sis-in-law is doing something so completely harmful to her own sister and the family in general. If the sis-in-law hates her sister and can't wait to spill the beans, then you're basically screwed. If she has a shred of decency then hopefully she won't hold you hostage with the 'I'll tell her if we stop'.

Hopefully you both can stop this horrible behavior now, keep this secret until you're both in your graves, and avoid hurting your wife any further.

Be a better man and a better husband. Your wife doesn't deserve this.

Answer 3

If she will tell on you now, she will tell on you later. You can't keep your sister-in-law quiet about this. More than half of her enjoyment is thinking that she has something her sister owns or that she can satisfy her sister's husband better than her sister can. This has a lot more to do with the sisters than it does with you, even though it makes you feel sensual and irresistible. You cannot get out of this in any good way unless your sister-in-law dies, and since she loves to exercise, I doubt that happens.

Now you have to tell your wife your side of it before she hears it from her sister. It is inevitable. You will probably want to put it off, but then your affair (and that's what it is) will just have been going on longer by the time you confess. You and your wife ought to take a romantic vacation together or start going to church or whatever would make your wife in a more forgiving state of mine. Your sister-in-law is to blame because she let it happen. Now she will twist the knife to hurt her sister. Do you want the wife or the sister? Because you can't have both for the rest of your life.

Don't have sex with your sister-in-law again because it only makes it that much worse and that much longer to have to forgive. Maybe your wife can't forgive you.
You clearly screwed up and that's sad her sister used you.

Answer 4

your wife will find out in the end. a sister would only to this to her sibling to have something to punish her with later so, basically, no matter how well you cover it up, short of your sister-in-law being killed in an accident, eventually your wife and entire family will know. so move into the mode of damage control. tell your wife and quit it with the sister. beg forgiveness. if she knows what a whore her sister is, she might actually forgive you with time, unless you don't have kids, then she'll probably throw you out on your ***. oh, and go get some counselling.

Answer 5

I think you should be more worried about your wife getting hurt than your sister in law being mad. If you want to keep it low teach your wife what you want her to do, it will work. Tell her you need some excitement. Honestly quit being a **** head what if your whore gets pregnant. She's a sad *** person too if she needs to **** her sisters husband. Quit being a cheating bastard and live up to it.

Answer 6

You need to stop this all together. DO NOT let her in your bed with you again. Lock your door to your room for goodness sakes. Just end it and move on with your life. If your wife finds out you will have to pay for it and face the consecquences. You chose to do this so you need to grow up and face what will happen.

Answer 7

I don't believe your story as you are implying your sister-in-law came over and only YOU were in the house and she decided to "sleep" with you since you were taking a nap.

I don't think so. C'mon, you can do better than that!

Answer 8

you up a creek without a paddle. first off you shouldnt have done this in the first place. your sister in law and you need to come clean to your wife. and then maybe she will forgive you. if you hide it she will find out or catch you. and even if you stop it chacnes are she will still find out someway or antoehr. just tell her the truth and maybe she will spare you for telling her.

Answer 9

oh yea right,,,are you serious,,,you'll get caught eventually. you made a mistake but to keep on doing it really shows no respect for your wife. Just because your wife won't do certain things doesn't give you the right to cheat. grow up!

Answer 10

Your whole world will explode soon if you don't stop knocking boots with your sister in law