Do ladies night (with the girls) really end when married?
Would you rather go out with your husband or would you rather still some nights just go out with the girls? What's the difference? I mean I know what I would do but I would like to hear your answers...all please...
2007-04-17 07:42:39 · 35 answers · asked by lotsofluv007 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i am married have been for over 7 yrs and i still have girls night not very often but maybe 4 times a year. my husband has his guys night too he goes out more often like maybe 8 times a year. i dont mind he needs his man time with his buds more than i need my girl time. it works for us.
2007-04-17 07:57:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my gal and I have been together for 7 years. She still from time to time goes out with the girls. She just prefers to be at home with the family more often. The big difference for her is that ladies night became more going to dinner and having drinks rather than a club. The important part is that she knows she has the freedom to do what ever she wants.
2007-04-17 07:46:41 · answer #2 · answered by NIKK F 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what Ladies night means. If it means scoping out the guys, or acting single, yeah, it really should probably end. If it just means going to a movie with friends or hangin out at someone's house, or going out to dinner, then there is no reason for it to end.
There is a certain "respect" thing that's important for BOTH the husband and wife to do when they are married.
2007-04-17 07:49:18 · answer #3 · answered by btpage0630 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ladies night does not end when you get married. In fact, it becomes more important. Husbands are NOT girlfriends (ladies, I know you agree with me here). My wife and I have been married for 8 years - ladies night out is once per week. So is my time. It's more important than ever - it gives us a breather to relax & have friends.
2007-04-17 07:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by Big Super 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm not married, but I'm engaged with a 1 year old and i live with my fiance and my daughter.
I still go out with the girls, every tuesday night, and almost every saturday night. Sometimes more than that.
It just depends on the person. Most people that i know prefer to have exclusive nights out with the girls or guys after they are married. You just have to trust your significant other.
2007-04-17 07:48:14 · answer #5 · answered by E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm married with a kid and they didn't end for me. My husband and I have a deal, he gets Friday night out and I get Saturday. On our night home we spend special time with our daughter. We make sure everything is scheduled, and we are responsible. Oh and any money spent comes out of our allowance, not the household fund. We also call with any loctaion changes or changes in plans so the other doesn't have to worry.
2007-04-17 08:27:45 · answer #6 · answered by Jennie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that when you are married, you must compromise.
I'm sure both husband and wife have friends, but there has to be some boundries set.
Girls night out, can be just as it was, but don't go looking to get hit on, just have fun with the girls and the girls only.
2007-04-17 07:47:30 · answer #7 · answered by n_harros 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It only needs end if you want it to. My friends don't stop being my friends when I'm in a relationship.
Sure I'd like to go out with my husband, but there are 365 (ish) days in a year so there are PLENTY available to go out with friends as well.
What's the difference? A night out with girlfriends (or hanging at one of their homes and drinking and chatting) is VERY different from a night out with one's guy. Different topics of conversation, different vibe, different atmosphere.
I would never give up spending time with friends, due to being in a relationship (dating or married). One's significant other is important in their life, but isn't all there is in life.
2007-04-17 07:51:25 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is unhealthy to NOT have a ladies night....or a guys night out, as well......it gives each person a chance to get out of the house and do something on their own, with friends...but only every once in a while, not every single weekend. If you don't have friends of your own, and a time to spend either alone, or without your mate....then things could get boring, stuffy....you should spend most time with your spouse, but get out and do your own thing....be independent...as long as you are faithful and come home to your spouse...it is definitely a good thing!
2007-04-17 07:48:42 · answer #9 · answered by Courtney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, ive been with my husband 7 years, married for 2 and theres no reason you cant still have some me time, i have a son too, so that makes a difference but i still go out with friends from work at least once a month or so, and its no problem at all.
2007-04-17 07:47:35 · answer #10 · answered by domsmom701 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋