at 16 is it hard to get pregnant?

Question

im 16 dont judge me or write anything rude please i want a baby i ready i have the money and experience but i cannot get pregnant ive had sex with my boyfriend he nutts in me ... everytime but im still starting my period whats wrong

Answer 1

No it's not hard to get pregnant. But, I thank the Heaven's above that you haven't gotten pregnant yet. Just reading what you wrote tells me that you are not mature enough to be a respectable mother to a baby yet. Please, please, please wait. You have so much to do and learn about yourself before you will really be ready to share your life FOREVER with another person.

Answer 2

You should wait so that you have time to grow and experience life. You say you have money, but I'm assuming you're not even done with highschool yet as you're only 16. Please be aware that the job market is very marketive and you are replaceable just as anyone else, your family won't alaways be there, and you never what could happen in your relationship with your bf. You'll be more secure financially and more comfortable if you finish at least HS ( and aim for college--you can do it!). This will be a good time for you and your partner to get to know each other in a variety of circumstances, which will provide a solid foundation for raising a family in the future. If he truly cares about your well-being, he would be willing to wait as well. You don't know if he'll always be around to support you financially and emotionally, so you have to ensure that you can make it on your own, too, in case of an emergency.

Plus, you're not finished devleoping into a full grown woman. You can put both you and a baby at risk if you start this young, as your body doesn't finish developing until around 23.

You're only so young once, so enjoy it while it lasts without having so many obligations. It is difficult to juggle work and a child; it's not a babysitting gig.

Answer 3

Why do you want to have a baby at 16 anyway? Enjoy your youth. Trust me you are not ready. Wait about ten years and in the meantime enjoy your life. I'm not judging you, but I think if you have a baby now you will wish you had waited until later. Plus, wouldn't you rather have a child with your husband than some guy you're dating from school or whatever that probably won't be around in a year or two anyway? Oh, and you think you have the money and experience to provide for a baby? From what, babysitting? Trust me being the provider is a lot different than playing with a baby and then giving it back to the parents. I think you seriously need to re-think this. I hope someday you see it as a blessing that you aren't getting pregnant right now.

Answer 4

I want you to explain how in the world you think you're ready at 16. What money do you have? What experience? Have you even graduated high school? What about college? Do you have a full time job to support you, your child, and a place to live? What do your parents say? Grow up first!

EDIT
Okay, I just read some other questions of yours and not only are you too young to have a child but you're more immature than most 16 year old's I've met. First, you just lost your virginity a year ago. Second, your boyfriend and you already broke up once and you got back together because he missed the sex. Third, you're asking about ecstasy and mushrooms. Fourth, you're asking for help on your homework. And Fifth, you lied in one question about you and your "husband" and you were wondering about twins. Girl, you are WAY to young to be even thinking about having a baby any time in the next 5-10 years. May the Lord help you....if he can!

Answer 5

I'm not judging you, but 16 is so young. You have so much to accomplish before thinking about children. If you want a child to fill a void of some kind, it's not going to be as you expect. Babies are hard work. The rewards are such a blessing and true nobody is ever really ready for the challenges, but at your age all you should be concerned with is succeeding in graduating highschool and accomplishing your dreams. Having the money and experience with children does not necessarily make you ready to have one of your own. As for the physical aspect, this may be God's way of telling you to wait rather than rush into this. Wait until you have an established, stable job, a residence of your own and a partner who you are 100% sure is willing to be there for you and the child. Good luck in all you do.

Answer 6

Oh my lord, honey. I don't think you have any idea what you are trying to do. Having a child is a huge, huge responsibility. Have you finished school? I am 25 and I had my daughter at 23 and I wish I waited a little longer. Who is to say your boyfriend will stick around? I think you may need to think this through a little bit. You say you have the money but I can guarantee you will still struggle. Unless you are making a six-figure salary and at 16 I don't think you are. Even then, people still struggle. I am not trying to be rude or anything but I just think you are so young and so immature. You may be having a problem because you body is not ready to carry a child. Please wait. Do you have any intentions of going to college to better your education and get a decent job for you and your baby? I can't go back to school because I don't have time. It is not a picnic and it is very, very hard. You can not depend on anyone but yourself, so think of these things before you make this HUGE life altering decision. What makes you think you are ready? Good luck to you and I hope you think about this and the changes you will have to face.

Answer 7

If you fully understand your body and cycle, its really not that difficult for a healthy person to concieve. It is normal, however, for it to take up to 18 months. Also, sometimes its the man who has fertility problems. If you've tried for over 1 year, consistently, then your doctor may recommend testing. However, I would first advise you to determine when you're ovulating. If you didn't know, not everyone ovulates on day 14. That is a generalization. Read the book "Taking Charge of Your Fertility." It explains everything you THINK you know but don't. Also, visit www.mymonthlycycle.com for information on how to properly chart your cycles.

Seems like a lot doesn't it? Did you realize there was this much involved? I bet not. Now, think about what you THINK you know about raising children. Now multiply that by 100. What experience do you think you have? Hun, if all you have is some babysitting experience I have some bad news for you. That isn't the half of it. You are young. I know at that age we think we know everything, but we don't. Its now a proven fact that the human brain does not stop growing and developing until age 25. Reasoning and decision making are the last to fully develop. Best of luck to you. I hope you think this through more.

Answer 8

No, it's not hard. At 16 unless you're married or engaged at least, you shouldn't even think about getting pregnant. At that age, odds are high the guy will leave. Wait til you're older hun. Enjoy your childhood before you have to be an adult. As for why it fails... you are most likely to concive if you have sex between 10-18 days from the start of your last period. It's in those days that ovulation is most likely to occur. I don't think it's the best idea, but good luck to you anyway.

Answer 9

wow...well your TOO young to have a baby. I think your not ready to have one yet, its hard and not such a very good idea. You definately have to have a GOOD job making great money making better than $9.00 an hour.
You and your boyfriend should be married and 18 and older, where it is legal to do these actions.
And if you want him to go to jail, so shall he if you let him have sex with you.
I'm warning you of all the things you can go through.
Just be careful. And if you two really love one another and your parents approve, go for it, just make sure you are ready for it and have the money, cuz having a child is very expensive and takes alot of work, plus gets you busy, even if you are in school, you won't have time with friends.
So enjoy life while you're still young. Cuz once the time comes, it gets harder for you.

Answer 10

Well im sixteen too and I would never want to become pregnant so young. Honestly think it over. You will be letting go of all your spare time. You will give up hanging out with friends. You can have kids in the future. You are more septiable to conceive two weeks after your period. The time period is called ovulation and you can get pregnant easily. If that doesnt work then maybe your or your partner arent capable of having children.

Answer 11

I suppose not hard just IDIOTIC!!!

You have what money? The money you get from mommy and daddy? How much could a 16 yr old possibly have saved up? 900 bucks isn't gonna cut it...

HA!!! HA!!! HA!!! LMAO You spend your time asking about Akon and SPM songs and wondering what the theme of Cinderella is and if Bam died... Not to mention you don't even KNOW how to open a savings account!!! And how exactly do you plan on managing real finances? You and your ex are rocky which I'm assuming is the guy you're with right now and you say all he wants is sex! LMAO Some guy you've got to be having a kid with! This is hilariously pathetic. If you need to ask what being on certain drugs is like at 16, my guess is if you have a kid now who knows what you're going to do in the future when you feel you've missed out on life and end up partying and living in a run down trailer, dropping your kid off at your moms because the father of your kid isn't around, you're not married and you got it through your head that he spread your legs then left you...