I was in a relationship w/ a guy for 4 years, left him for a female. Dated women for 8 months. Then I met my current boyfriend, fell in love, been w/ him for almost 6 yrs. I have always liked women throughout our relationship. I have a collection of female photographs/magazines in my closet, I'm obsessed with Gia Carangi. My bf calls them the girls in my closet. I think I've been lying to myself about this for awhile. How do I tell him that I'm gay?
2007-04-17 05:28:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Not sure what you are asking...do you want to leave him and find a woman? If so, then out with it, you have wasted enough of his time. IF you want to include women in your sex life and stay with your BF, then it is time for a heart to heart...you may find that he has no problem with it...or he may walk...whatever, you need to clear the air before any more years are lost...they just don't come back, believe it or not.
2007-04-17 06:42:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've been having a relationship with a guy for months then perhaps you are bisexual. If you truly want a relationship with a woman, just tell your boyfriend that just want to move on. I think the "women in your closet" have already clued him in. Who knows - maybe he won't even care. There really is no special way to do this - just tell him - or perhaps better yet, show him. You also might want to set him up with someone that might be right for him - to "let him down easy".
2007-04-17 05:44:16 · answer #2 · answered by Paul Hxyz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him straight out, sit him down and talk to him, but i really think that you are bi not gay, i mean you have been for 6 years with him, have you ever cheated on him for women? There are many things affecting this, and you say he knows baou tthe magazines, so i think that by this time he already may know osmething but hasnt told you anything because he is waiting for you to have the trust to tell him . Good luck and keep me posted.
2007-04-17 05:36:56 · answer #3 · answered by sabin_f5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first your not gay-gay means complete and truely happy
Romans 1 says your unthankfull and worship the created instead of the creator and at some point will have a reprobate mind-if u get this you dont yet. then or now the hope is as I did to be delivered -John 3 repent of sin -even one lie and be born again to see the kingdom of God.
prayin for you, David in ;Jesus amazing grace and truely happy now too -but i feel sad for you
2007-04-17 05:48:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
As you tell me you did fall in love with your boyfriend it looks as if you're bi. I wouldn't consider it a big issue. If you still love your boyfriend there is nothing wrong with your relationship just because you're principally capable of loving girls.
2007-04-17 09:30:09 · answer #5 · answered by meiguanxi :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the other answerers. You're bi, not gay. Gays guys don't find the female body attractive at all.
2007-04-17 05:43:31 · answer #6 · answered by alienaviator 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r not gay u r bi or esbian ok and just tell him say honey i love girls but i love u too!
2007-04-17 05:37:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well #1 I think u need to figure out what love and lust is and 2 you can have both if he is open to it my g/f is bi we get along great~!
2007-04-17 05:44:52 · answer #8 · answered by concerned Illinois 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just come on out and say it..........this is nothing you should wait around to tell........he needs to know just as much as you need to be who you are.............don't stress I just told mine......i love you, but not in love with you and i want a divorce
2007-04-17 05:33:42 · answer #9 · answered by alex grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋