I really have started to like one of my best friends. How do you get a girl to like you on a more than friends basis, when she loves her social life and being free from commitments more that being in relationships?
A) Tell her how I feel?
B) Let her live her life and then tell her how I feel after she has settled down?
C) Something else?
2007-04-17 03:44:36 · 4 answers · asked by Mister 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Show her how you feel. Demonstrate that you care more than as a 'friend'. But, do not pressure her; do not make demands of her; do not be pushy; do not develop a fatal attraction.
You say "she loves her social life and being free from commitments more than being in relationships". I think you already know how she feels about deep involvements so think carefully and then decide whether you truly want to pursue her; just in case she may not appreciate the pursuit.
On the other hand, she may be of that mind for now but in time would welcome your advances. As a matter of fact, she could be waiting for the right one to ask. If you are serious, really serious, go for it.
2007-04-17 04:00:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know how you feel, and then bide your time. You can't persuade someone to develop feelings for you that they do not have, but perhaps once she knows how you feel, she MAY admit to feeling the same way. Good luck.
2007-04-17 10:52:53 · answer #2 · answered by GEEGEE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant, she either does or dosen't. You can tell her how you feel but it could strain the relationship if she doesn't feel the same way. Good luck!!!
2007-04-17 10:55:40 · answer #3 · answered by Sharon G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't. You have to take things as they come in life.
2007-04-17 10:49:42 · answer #4 · answered by Erica 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋