my very best friend n i ve taken a step ahead
n i believe i'm in love...
but he doesn believe in love itself...
what do i do bout it?
2007-04-17 03:26:45 · 5 answers · asked by idonkno 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's possible that the two of you can develop a relationship, and even if he doesn't believe in love, then maybe you can be the first to show him what it really is. It will take patience and understanding but you can bring him around.
2007-04-17 04:25:21 · answer #1 · answered by Papadoc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Heh, this strikes home for me :) I am practically romanticly challenged. What helped me was realising that i was able to be loved, I dont know if i can love though. There is probally a reason why he doesnt belive in love, either he has gone through a breakup and given up on it, or something tramatic in his childhood that makes him think that love couldnt exist.
I think you should stay with him, really get to know him and spend lots of time with him (if he wants, dont force it). Then start leaving suttle hints to show him that he could be loved.
Depending on the situation this should work, good luck cause it looks like you may need it
2007-04-17 03:39:43 · answer #2 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being in love with your best friend is hard... I've done it a few times.
To let you know, most times it doesnt work. He doesnt even believe in love, so its hard to change that.
Just stay friends is my advice. I've gotten in a relationship with my best friend, it only lasted 2 weeks, and we argued so much, I couldnt believe it. We had never argued before that!
We have both moved on, I have a child with my current boyfriend of a year, and he just got married to his soon to be babys mother.
Take it slow and dont pressure him if he doesnt feel the same about you.
2007-04-17 03:34:28 · answer #3 · answered by Mami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people who don't believe in love usually don't because they've never truly been in love or have had bad past relationships. he's just gotta find the one for him
2007-04-17 03:42:14 · answer #4 · answered by JM 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him over and when he arrives answer the door naked.
2007-04-17 03:55:42 · answer #5 · answered by applecheeks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋