I'm desperate to move out from my parents - the atmosphere is incredible tense and we're constantly having arguments - but can only just about afford to rent a room for a few months .....at this time I just want peacee and quiet and don't want to have to deal with other people - I've thought about waiting a bit longer so that I can afford to rent a bedsit of my own, but I desperately need to go soon - it's really affecting my state of health....what can I do? Many thanks in advance.
2007-04-17 02:24:52 · 9 answers · asked by m l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
True, parents are jerks.. Stay at your friend's house?
2007-04-17 02:27:39 · answer #1 · answered by Booyah! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As someone who moved out for a year and is now back at home with the parents, I would advise against it. I didnt have that good a job and it was very hard. My father was driving me crazy and I just had to get out and felt very similar to the way you are. However, it was basically financial kamikaze. What I would suggest would either be to find someone you know you could get along with well and split a rent or what I actually do sadly is sometimes say I'm going to visit a friend in another state for a weekend and actually stay at a motel or sleep at a friend's for a few nights. Trust me. Don't move out until you have a ton of money so it is not that much of a drain on your monetary resources.
2007-04-17 02:38:26 · answer #2 · answered by jrunner44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you at an age where you can get a social worker - or are you at an age where you are earning money and can rent somewhere - you should look into your options you maybe able to rent somewhere and get help paying the rent. Can you escape home for a few weeks have a cooling of period - make sure you think of the long term plan - rent, tax, etc,
Good luck - cheer up some you sound so depressed make sure you get some support Hun
2007-04-17 02:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moving out may not be the best answer!.. Its a giant leap of faith to move out from the protection of a family home and can be a very rewarding time but also a very damaging time because you become responsible for everything that you have taken for granted while living with your parents. so You should consider it very carefully before you do anything because once you have gone they might not want to let you back!.
Its a very strange feeling leaving home, once you have lived by yourself for a while going home simply isn't the same anymore, its kinda like you are a stranger and tend to end up walking on the proverbial egg shells.
if i where you i sit down and talk to your mom and dad and try to sort out whats really is bugging them and you!, Only move out has a last resort!.
Good luck!.
2007-04-17 06:24:18 · answer #4 · answered by robert x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hun sorry to say it but if you cant afford it then you're stuck where you are!
Are there any friends that you could stay with for a bit?
Do you have any work experience in exchange for a room - maybe a live in job at a pub or a b&b or something to that effect?
xx
2007-04-17 02:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay at a friends house or look in your local rentals and find a roommate wanted posting.
2007-04-17 02:30:46 · answer #6 · answered by mikentammy76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well try to move into a house that or apartment that other people live in and you pay half and the other person pays half
2007-04-17 02:29:39 · answer #7 · answered by Traviesa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
club together with a like minded friend
2007-04-19 04:06:16 · answer #8 · answered by fat momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hit the streets.
2007-04-17 02:29:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋