Even though she is eager for more close encounters, I am feeling guilty about it as she is half my age
2007-04-17 01:39:05 · 24 answers · asked by Willy S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
thats just wrong
2007-04-17 01:44:49 · answer #1 · answered by dee_ann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you married? How will your daughter feel when she finds out? If you're not married and it was consensual, age really doesn't matter. I dated a man older than my father and it was one of the best relationships I ever had. I think what you really need to consider here is why do you feel guilty? I don't think the age factor is the entire reason your conscience is kicking your butt. However, if you decide to pursue this relationship, I suggest having a discussion with your daughter first. It might be helpful to know her feelings on the matter.
2007-04-17 01:49:48 · answer #2 · answered by cherlindra2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it has not been a forced one you need not repent for it. The ages do not matter as long as both the persons are interested in it. Regarding the relationship as daughter's friend etc are all society made and is your false concern. What has happened is alright as long as it has been done with mutual consent. Thats all nothing more or nothing less.
2007-04-17 01:45:00 · answer #3 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to realize what your doing. You are jeopardizing your relationship with your daughter over some fantasy. I think that you should stop as soon as possible and if the girl still wants to do stuff you should talk some sense into her.
If you think that there isn't any way to avoid her, just leave the house or stay away from her every time she comes over, or you can just tell her to stay away from you. You shouldn't have to leave your house just because some immature girl wants to act childish.
You guys need to stop now!
2007-04-17 02:29:29 · answer #4 · answered by Brittany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your daughter what happened see how she feels about it I'll bet she wont like it very much. you said the girl is half your age. then you should view her as a child even if she is 21.what would you do if one of your friends slept with your daughter? how would you feel about that? Don't look at it like a horny old man.Look at it like her dad would.
2007-04-17 01:59:45 · answer #5 · answered by comon sence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-26 11:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, you know how many people would love to be in your shoes right now? take it and go with it man. when do you think you will get a chance to score with a girl like that for the rest of your life? you aren't hurting your daughter so why not?
2007-04-17 01:43:00 · answer #7 · answered by absolutmex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hopefully you are single. Age does not matter but it may end up causing trouble with your daughter. So you need to think this out before anything else happens
2007-04-17 01:43:35 · answer #8 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a responsible parent you are...
think about how hurt your daughters going to be when she finds this out. you totally crossed the line as a parent and i doubt she will include you in her personal life now that you invaded her friends and privacy. you need some help. maybe go speak to a sex therapist and find out what you problem is.
2007-04-17 01:58:54 · answer #9 · answered by spadezgurl22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh.... you should have thought a bit more careful about this.
I say you tell your daughter. With her friend with you. May be a shock but its best not to hide stuff like this behind your back.
2007-04-17 01:42:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so wrong. I don't think it is right to ever do that . Imagine you were 21 , your best friend just ****** your father. Wouldn'
t feel cool would it ?
2007-04-17 01:42:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋