need advise on a married woman with.4. kids?

Question

when i was doing my.2. year missionary work i had a affaie with this married woman i was only.19. she was 47. and had.4. children . herself and married now she is divorced her husband found out from her i really didnt want nothing to do with her but now i might be in trouble as what we was using. how can i keep myself out of jail. i as well had a.std. i gave her and never told her . the reason why is i hated her husband. at that time and still do . he can have me locked up she told him everything .

she was stealing her husbands medicine and we was using it she tiold him it got washed . later on she told him the truth and she was recording me as well as her . now he has the tapes .

she was stealing her husbands medicine and we was using it she tiold him it got washed . later on she told him the truth and she was recording me as well as her . now he has the tapes .

Answer 1

if i read this right pal. she was old enought to be your mom . and stealing another.s persons medication is a felony and she was tapeing you as well her to boot pal he can turn those tapes in to local law and you. as well her can go to jail over this you played with fire as for religion . you in my opion was doing your own thing and to use religion to well lay his wife. and you stated you had a.std. as well knowing you had it and gave it to her pal your *** is up **** creek on more than you would ever know by law you just might want to get it in your mind when you play with fire you get burnt in your case as well. her.s as well both might go to prision and you both deserve what you get . uesing religion o do this. you stated.you was doing.a.2. year missionary work . are you mormon . they are the only ones i know who do this . if so pal you are in big trouble. and you.2. asked for it in my opion?

Answer 2

You are obviously a young 2 year missionary with the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints (Mormons). I am a young Baptist pastor and I know what kind of pressure the Mormons put on their young men that forces them to go on these meissions before they are allowed to pursue engagement/marriage with a girl in their church/back home.

This is not right as it creates an unhealthy situation. I am not sure that you will receive a sympathetic ear from your church bishop/elders, so I would first share the situation with your parents and hav ethem support you in taking this problem to them. Confession and counselling is very necesaary and if you do not get supported as you should --- seek out a good christian counsellor or an experience pastor at an evangelical church. You are dealing with very serious issues of moral conduct and faith here and I am not sure that your existing church/parents will have the support you need.

Do not give up on God or His Son our Saviour Jesus Christ who are still available to you for forgiveness, restitution and growth out of what is a serious, but not too black of a situation.

Nothing is outside Christ's ability to resolve in your spiritual journey, if you are dealing with the truth of Christ and the Christian scriptures and not the extra spurious doctrines that Joseph Smith place on top of it starting in the mid 1800's.

BTW, have no contact with the woman or her husband, until you get solid christian counselling and advice.

Answer 3

Wow a missionary huh? No wonder Christianity is getting the rotten reputation it has been getting over the past 20 years. It's own followers don't "practice what they preach".

Answer 4

I agree to David C Cumby and The_Silver_Foxx above and have given them my vote

Good Luck! Bear Hugs!

Answer 5

See a lawyer and a pastor. Perhaps from another church.

Answer 6

Never play with fire. You always get burned.

Answer 7

you should. not. only be. arrested. for the affaie.. but. should be arrested. for murder. of. the.. english language...