2007-04-16 21:30:44 · 8 answers · asked by mshanita 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Instead of focusing on his appearance, focus on his health and tell him that you are worried about the risks extra weight can have on his health. With that said, find activities you both can engage in. Get him motivated to lose weight but remember he has to want to do this for himself. You can help him by buying and cooking healthy, low calorie foods and getting rid of junk food.
2007-04-16 21:36:33 · answer #1 · answered by Maricel S 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The best thing about us(men) is that we never listen. But there are sure ways to convince your man to put down weight and believe me the most effective way would be never asking him to do that but point out on other men who are much fitter. The point is to make him jealous of other men and he will himself feel embarassed about its weight. One more thing give him a proper diet which is the best way to lose weight.
2007-04-16 21:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by slyshooter 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you think he must put down his weight? Would it be better for you to accept him as he is. Does it bother you or is he in any danger from illness. If you have a good reason then tell him the reason.
Otherwise it is upto you to change your opinion.
2007-04-16 21:38:22 · answer #3 · answered by Kalu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are many ways you could go about this, but I think it's important to keep his feelings in mind when addressing such a subject. It should be done in a considerate fashion, expressing your concern for his health, and perhaps even your physical attraction for him. Also be sure to suggest ideas on a healthier diet, exercise routine, that you can both do together.
2007-04-16 21:36:58 · answer #4 · answered by Answer Girlz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the best way is to begin cooking and eating healthy yourself, and by example telling your husband that you feel great, and you'll look good too. It's easier for anyone to diet if they are supported by their family.
2007-04-16 21:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by charmedchiclet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get information for him on the dangers of being over weight.
2007-04-16 21:33:46 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aside from his health concern, tell him that he looks sexier if he reduce his weight.
2007-04-17 04:05:05 · answer #7 · answered by gandakoh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On romantic moment, ask him to carry you to your bed .... be atleast 20 meters away when asking this !!
2007-04-16 22:45:15 · answer #8 · answered by Sean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋