Would you get back with your ex after being finished a year and a half?

Answer 1

I wouldnt...Once something is done its done....

Answer 2

My friend has got back with her high school sweetheart...It has been 8 years since they split...They both have children to other people but they are sure that the reason why they parted back then was immaturity.He had to Sow a few seeds as they say.

I think you do what you both want at the end of the day.Opinions dont matter and going off my friends scenario she thinks their love never died but they just went seperate ways and because they never saw eachother anymore they plodded on and built a life with someone else only to meet again and feel it all over again.

So a year and a half is nothing and you havent built new lives with someone else so give it a go and if it doesnt work then thats why you became exes and if it works just fine then its best to know now and not when you,re settled with someone else.Good luck!

Answer 3

I got back with an ex after being split up for 5 years. We hadn't seen each other during those 5 years but had always stayed in contact for birthdays, Christmas etc we would just send a text wishing the other person well. But then we bumped into each other totally unexpectedly and got chatting and decided to meet up again as friends to catch up on all the gossip etc.
It turned out that it took us those 5 years to grow up and to be able to give each other the relationship that we were looking for, I am more in love with him now than I was when we first got together and we are both more grown up and respectful of each other too, its working out fab!!

If you still have feelings for your ex, why not give it a go and find out what happens, if you don't you will always wonder!! And to be honest not trying it out because he is an ex sounds stupid to me because obviously he had some qualities that made you want to go out with him 11/2 years ago and maybe those qualities have improved with time and maybe he has gained a few extras that you might like.

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Answer 4

In the past I would have said no - there is a reason they are your ex. However, I am now in a relationsip again with an ex of mine & it's going really really well, we live together & are having a baby.

I think it depends how things ended & how you both feel now. With my boyfriend things are very different to how they were before. We were only together a short time & it was 3 years ago. Back then I wasn't ready for things to get serious, but now things are wonderful!

I would say that you have to be very careful though.

Answer 5

No, it seems like a good idea but it hardly ever works. I got back with an ex after 20 years of not seeing each other - it hadnt ended badly just due to living in different countries but after an initial wonderful 6 months all the bad things about him became evident and I had just forgotten!

Answer 6

I have in the past done this, and in my experience it never works.

You are both thinking of the good times, and trying to get back what you had at the start of your relationship, and not thinking of the reason you split in the first place.

However, saying that I do know it has worked for other people. The fact your asking this question probably means you have reservations about getting back with them, so think long and hard, because it could well be a big mistake, that is taking time out of your life, and stopping you from moving on.

Answer 7

It all depends on the grounds which red to the breack up.but my advise is follow your heart i can say that dont but if you fell he /she was the right person for you why not?you know some things in life happen for a reason it could be that you were not able to apriciate each ather before coz you took each other for grented and now you have seen that your all worth tender love and respect why not get back and keep it hot but you realy need to deeply think about it atherwise you can be hurt twice and you know what that means.

Answer 8

Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/AKiLB

Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.

The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.

Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.

Answer 9

OH Well I havent been deleted lately XMama call me and asked if we could remarry i said maybe but the honeymoon would be a lot diffrent she got all upset asked me how I told her
This time im gonna sit on the side of the bed crying cause its to big she hasnt called for a while now

Answer 10

Nope. They had their chance. I wouldn't get back after 1 week! One man's loss is another man's treasure - I always say...(can you imagine how many STD's they could have gotten since?!) Be careful, not stupid. You don't want anyone's leftover nor do you want to be back up because someone else didn't work out.

Answer 11

I did! I am still with him 2 yrs on but there is always a nagging feeling at the back of my brain that says why!! you cant forget the past and the hurt from the last time!! I dont seem to get to attached now even though i love him i just dont want him to hurt me again! xx