2007-04-16 20:49:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What age do did u get married or planning to. I personal think that you should be a bit older to get married what do you think?
2007-04-16 20:59:08 · update #1
From personal experience here, I got married very young and my first husband and I broke up when I was 20, after 2 years of marraige. I am now 32 and am a completly different person. I have meet and fallen in love with another man and I can not compair it to my first marraige. I know who I am and what I want out of my life now, and I don't struggle communicating it like I used to. I think you need to live a little before you get married. And what's meant to be will be.
2007-04-16 20:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by crazychick1975 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on many factors; are both parties through school and working? Are children contemplated? What are the finances? Where to live, parents or your own apartment or buy a house/condominium.
If you're not planning on children right away, why not just live together for a couple years? Remember, the statistics are against you. over 63% of first marriages end in divorce. So consider living together until both of you feel sufficiently comfortable that you want ot get married. Or don't. I know couples who have lived together over 20 years and are perfectly happy. No kids. They join their incomes. If you want to tell strangers you're married, simply tell them. Of course you may have issues with family. Talk with them (family) and ask their advice. Marriage can be a wonderful thing but take a good look at some of the questions that are asked here about marriage and divorce. Makes you think long and hard.
2007-04-16 21:00:50 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not right or wrong age.. couples that marry young can have fantastic marriages that last until they're silver haired and bald. Others wait to marry until they are older, but still struggle to make it work.
Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. What's important to remember is that each person in the relationship has to want to make it work in order for it the relationship to stand the test of time.
2007-04-16 21:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by Ready2Fly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not an age issue but more of an attitude thing. Personally I think one should not get married until one has lived on one's own for at least 2 years to get a "sense of self", not dependent on others especially parents for support.And dont marry thinking you can change the other person!!!
2007-04-16 20:57:28 · answer #4 · answered by subbie4gb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least 18.
I got married at 22.
2007-04-16 21:00:50 · answer #5 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in Georgia the legal age for getting married is 104
2007-04-17 02:07:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
before thirty but teen age and early 20's are not my time yet!! if we reach thirty already when we get married,we might end up in pregnancy problems and if we get married too early,we may not enjoy our life being a single in a longer period of time..:)
2007-04-16 21:07:30 · answer #7 · answered by bobby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your both in love with each other then age don't matter. but don't get married if you have any doubts about your relationship. Good luck!
2007-04-17 05:03:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We were 21, but chronological age is not as important as emotional maturity.
2007-04-17 00:25:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
why would u want to get married ? havnt you seen what it does to peoples lives lol **** !! well good luck with that aye peace ...
2007-04-16 20:56:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋